First off I am looking for like-minded women/couples. Women that come from experiences similar, or at least comparable, to mine. Open-minded, non-judgemental women are always welcome, no matter which walk of life you come from. But I need to be able to connect- mentally before than physically- to someone that is on the same wavelength, someone to which you don’t feel like you have to explain or justify, the events, trials and errors of your life that brought you here and made you -in good and bad- who you are today. I find it much easier to connect with a woman/couple that is/has been married to fully understand eachother and connect. Second, I am not looking for quick hook up. I hinted to this before: If there isn’t a mental connection then nothing physical is going to follow. To go to the “next level” , so to speak, I need to find her attractive, physically, first as well as perality-wise, and have a nice and respectful relationship with her husband. I know I sound a bit demanding/selective but like i said before , i am here to find women/couples that are worthwhile, not just anyone I stumble upon....

My Ideal Person What I am here for: ideally, I would like to find a woman/couple - one, long-term FWB - that I get to really know and built trust and intrigue and passion together.

That being said, I am aware that you are busy with family-work-life etc. and so am I. So, hopefully, there should also be a mutual understanding and openness to the natural ebb and flow of life and relationships.

Also, culture, being able to have a nice adult conversation over a glass of wine or beer is key.
I am a successful silicon valley professional, and travel the world. I'd like to meet professional and equally openminded couples that are interested as I am in exploring sexuality and erotism together.