defdot 56 / M
"Kind & Considerate, Powerful & Passionate"
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
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defdot 56/M
Vancouver, British Columbia , Canada
I'm a pleasure giver by nature, a nurturer. Well versed in the world of Tantra & erotic massage.
I do a very well reviewed "erotic massage for couples" (& women) on a heated massage table using warm coconut oil, featuring candle light & wonderful music.

I'm an educated professional type. Well informed and articulate, I love intelligent conversation.
Fit & active outdoorsy type. Animal lover who loves to cook. I'm passionate about most aspects of life, especially the pursuit of pleasure. Looking for that special partner to pursue it with : ) I am a Scorpio and an intensely sexual being but I value intelligence in my partners extremely highly.

If I had the ear of God I would ask her to send me a small, smart, kind hearted woman who I would spend the rest of my life with. In a perfect world she would be a bi-sexual Sub ! I would travel the world to meet such a person !

Until I find that special person I would like to play with women, couples or groups.

My Ideal Person Women or Couples

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dave Matthews, Jesse Winchester

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'd like to host a dinner party & serve dessert
off my lover's naked body. Guests would lick their
cheese cake, chocolate, fruit etc off her belly, her breasts,
her pussy. She would eat her's off the cocks of other
guests : )

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, CHEMISTRY

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 56 / male
  • Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: November 2, 1960
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Some college
Occupation: Professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None