dcshadowstep 35 / M
"Seeking Partner for Friendship with Benefits, Perhaps More"
Washington, District of Columbia, United States
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dcshadowstep 35/M
Washington, District of Columbia
I literally just learned that "Netflix and chill" is a euphemism now... I think I'm getting old.
Restart. Short info is I'm passionate about most of the humanities (literature, music, art, philosophy) and interested in the sciences, not so much into politics; I clearly chose the wrong city in which to reside.

Looking for someone who complements my personality as a friend, hopefully with benefits and perhaps more. I wouldn't say no to a no-strings-attached relationship, but I prefer at least some emotional connection.

Full disclosure - I'm a nerd.

Also, I'm open to many kinks and willing to hear yours if you're interested. Yes, I have hard limits I will not cross, which can be discussed if you are curious/interested.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone who is comfortable in her own skin, shares enough interests that we can hold a conversation and independent enough to not need my validation of her existence.

I'm open to a variety of people and thoughts, but there's a few that I will not cross. I will not be your little secret from your spouse/fiance/significant other. I'm okay with informed polyamory, I'm not okay with cheaters. Now, if you're in a mutually open relationship, cool - we can chat. If you're a couple looking for an extra player every now and then... shoot me a message, we'll see if we mesh.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am trying to regularly post fantasies on my blog, but some
of my fantasy scenarios involve extended teasing, non-penetrative
sex, and extended masturbation/stimulation of my partner
giving her multiple orgasms before having her even touch
me sexually. I also have fantasies involving particular
pieces/types of clothing, like leotards/one-piece swimsuits,
pantyhose/tights, and catsuits/zentai.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Electricity

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Emotional/Intellectual Connection

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 35 / male
  • Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or TS/TV/TG
Birthdate: December 13, 1981
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Security
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Other
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, SomeJapanese&French
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: