I am married and have family who do not know about my sexual adventures. I am not in an open relationship. My wife does not participate in my play activities. I am not looking to get into a relationship or change my existing one. Please don't be judgemental. I need to be discrete. I am not available 24/7 to play or get away. I try to manage my risk. I have been tested ( early March 2016) for STDs and have a clean lab report. Everyone should be tested a couple times a year. You need to know your status. Asian, 5'6", 190 lbs. College educated. Work days.

My Ideal Person I am a mature fellow who is geeky and introverted. I can manage to come out of my shell once I get to know you. College educated here in California. Born and raised here actually. I love motorsports and would like to get out to Pomona on a Thursday or Friday for NHRA events. I love classic muscle cars and classic imports. I am actually a fan of both American performance cars and imports. I am a fan of history. In particular I enjoy reading military history. I also have a high heel fetish. I enjoy seeing a woman dressed classy or slutty with heels. My favorite type of high heel is stiletto. Wedges are ok. But no uggs, sneakers or flip flops. Although I have a high heel fetish I don't really care to smell or suck on toes or smell worn socks. Recently I have begun to explore BSDM. I am interested in learning how to tie (rig) and have taken a class at Sanctuary X near LAX. Oh and I really enjoy photography. I like to take pictures of landscape, military vehicles, hot rods, muscle cars, dragsters and imports and Amtrak trains. In the past year I have also taken returned to a hobby of fashion, pin-up and lingerie type photo shoots. I hope some of you women or couples would be interested in a photo shoot. I mean a real photo shoot at a local studio where I can take really good pictures. I have in the past year rented studio time in Orange County and in Van Nuys. I am not great at taking pictures and I am still learning about lighting but I am not a "Guy with Camera" GWC. I don't do photo shoots to try to get sex. I am really interested in getting a great picture. And I also like to shoot rifles and pistol and exercise my second amendment. Oh and I am very good at giving oral to women. I've been told so. I have references. I am up to show you girls what I can do. I am 5'6", currently 190 lb. Average length and slightly above average girth. I take prescription drugs to help with erections.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Latex

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