We've been on AFF for quite a number of years, but never acted out on anything on here. So, we created a new profile and backed off on some things to start a little slower. We aren't prudes - we've vacationed multiple times at a nudist resort in the Caribbean, been to several strip clubs together, a few swingers clubs out of state (to watch only) , and even a BDSM show (definitely not our cup of tea), but we are wanting to take the explore a bit more. We've been married over 15 years, have a family life that limits our outside activities, and want to be discrete.

My Ideal Person Really one thing that might be a great icebreaker and good way to find out if we click is a couple we could be friends with. Someone close by, perhaps with kids and similar ages, start off with the guys meeting and then if things are cool maybe drinks/dinner. It would be cool to have fun without the complete expectation that something was going to happen. Maybe a couple we could just hang out with for Cards Against Humanity or a movie and then who knows..., Is that crazy for a site like this?

While originally we wanted to be watched having sex by another couple and we have some other fantasies as well, we decided that the best place to start was seeing if there were other couples that wanted to be watched.

The ideal scenario that we talked about was finding a couple we could relate to... family, kids, discretion, likes to have a fun time, not Ken/Barbie but take care of themselves, and fairly new at all of this.