I succeeded in "getting the job done" before my birthday and I've discovered that I am adventurous in bed. And...assertive. And I like props :D Vanilla is an excellent start, but there is much fun to be had with the other flavours. I love to laugh. Sexcapades should include plenty of chuckling and cheeky/wry comments, as far as I'm concerned. Hot and heavy is fine, but amusing floats my boat. Please remember, adventurous does not equal stupid. My safety is important to me and should be important to you. I have my safe call network and use it. Condoms are a must. No you may not tie me up...yet. I am not into meaningless one night stands. I will not bump uglies with a guy I wouldn't have an ongoing relationship with. If I couldn't handle your company and conversation at dinner, we won't be doing the horizontal mambo. Which is why I insist on chatting here first and meeting in a public place second. (In Progress)

My Ideal Person If you DON'T fit into any of these categories, you have a fighting chance:

I am not interested in significantly younger men. I am also not generally interested in those who must use chat-speak. However, you get bonus points if you can use a semi-colon correctly

I am soooooo not into guys that can not keep a simple guideline straight: if you wouldn't do it in real life, don't do it online (i.e. 'u wanna fuk?' as an opening line).

I am also not interested in being 'the other woman'. If you are attached but in an open or poly relationship, lets talk. If you are looking to cheat on your spousal unit, please look elsewhere.

Socks during sex are an anti-fetish. Take them off, they just look odd.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Attitude, BBW-friendly

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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