I am married to a wonderful woman, I love her and I have no intention of breaking up. But, I have not had sex for at least 5 years and she is not interested. And so I am here. I am 99.9% sure that she'd not mind if I told her, but I do not want to break her heart ! I am very fit and have a mild addiction to Gym. I write software to extend our boundaries of knowledge. I write restaurant/hotel reviews in my spare time. I have traveled to 50 countries, tasted the wine/food, hiked the trails. I grew up penniless in a remote part of India, worked for some of the most interesting tech companies in the silicon valley, was a liquor store cashier (with a hand gun in my pocket) in one of the worst neighborhoods in LA and then worked for the most prestigious banks in NYC. Dined in the fly-infested road-side stalls in Trinidad , dusty rooftops in Morocco and the most expensive restaurants in Paris and everywhere in between! Enjoyed them all !! I have interesting stories to share, if only you can spare the time ! So, lets meet up for some red wine, good food (I eat everything, dont mind if you do not) and may be more