blacksheep85016 43 / M
"Single and Looking."
Baldwin City, Kansas, United States
 
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blacksheep85016 43/M
Baldwin City, Kansas
Introduction
I am not too sure of how to describe myself to anyone on a dating site, but I guess all I can do is try to be as honest as I can be about myself.

I'm an Irish male who is funny, compassionate, romantic, passionate, and very loyal.
I enjoy helping others. I love romance and the passion that only comes from the connection of two people very in tune with each other. I believe too many people don't put enough into romance and passion. It’s the little things like a kiss on the forehead or grabbing her hand while you walk into a place or just to tell her how pretty she looks after a long day.

Now my bad points I'm stubborn at times and pout. But deep down I'm very compassionate and loyal. But most of all, I'm very fair. I do believe that true love and passion comes from inside. Plus, since when is chemistry about looks? I believe it's about substance and elements. While I know people say looks count, and, sure, to a point they do; but don't you think some people put way too much into it? When did looks kiss you? Or hold you? Or hold you tight when you were sad or happy?

We truly need to look deep, not only into others, but our heart and see what really matters because deep down looks or money will never be who that person is inside. Don't get me wrong…looks are nice, but they can never be the only thing to go by. ...because truly they only play a small part in a relationship. The world is full of good actors, who think they are fooling people by who they are outside. Only the person really knows who they are inside. Looks only last so long...And if you're just looking at someone for their looks or money, how do you really know if they are looking at you for you or who you might look like or have? Even good looking and rich people have problems. After all, go look at a psychologist's office you might be shocked at who goes into them.

Remember those really gorgeous shoes you bought on sale thinking, how fantastic they looked and that everybody liked the way they looked. But all along you knew they were a little too small and hurt your feet. But you hoped that they might stretch out some in time. Instead of buying the comfy looking ones that never let you down. This is how it is to just put so much into looks. And not really look inside a person to see how you will fit with them. And how they will treat you...

Work on your inside and you're personality. Earn your own money...Build your own dreams. You're integrity; honesty and word are something nobody can take from you. I think too many people give up on relationships without trying everything they can. I'm not talking about staying in one that has abuse of any kind that will cause harm to others but when you care about people you should try remember none of us are perfect, nor should we be. To me if the good outweighs the bad its worth trying. Just like your dreams, you must fail before you can truly move forward. Most successful people failed many times before making it. My motto on that is "There is no failure, only delays on the road to success"
I treat others how they treat me until I see its being abused. I do 100% believe we teach others how to treat us by our actions and what we allow them to or not do. At some point we are no longer victims, but willing participants. Plus a just a thought, but sometimes we attract how we act. Our actions attract and what we allow others to do to us also attracts certain types of people, so we need to take a look inside us to see why at times we get treated a certain way, not by any means says getting treated poorly is right. .

Also, is change not good if it makes you a better person? But I do choose to be positive in life. Think about it a rose is very beautiful to look at and smell, but right below its Thorns. Which do you choose to see? Why be negative and be in the problem. It's much better to live in the solution.
I am very into romance and passion with the right woman. I think it's my personality and values that set me apart from other guys. I would love to meet the woman I just can't live without. We all feel pain and we all feel joy. So don't act better than anyone else and don't play with people’s hearts good or bad it's our actions that paint our picture. Also is change not good if it makes you a better person. But I do choose to be positive in life. I want a lady who is not, shallow, or selfish to people, who won’t play games and is compassionate to others. She doesn't think life or someone else owes her. If anything in life is worth having work for it.

How do you truly know what person you might miss by not getting to know the inside? Each person has different taste of who might or might not be good looking. So be real go for the inside. I want her to be able have dreams and to go for their dream. I want one strong in her opinions, yet be able hears others too. One who doesn’t just take, but gives to. One who gives as much as she gets. One that will put all she can into love. But I truly think these are things a person who cares about their self would like in their mate too. Remember we all put our pants on one leg at a time; we all hurt and cry to. Plus having good manners is always a plus...Life should be about having fun. Growing old with a person who shows you they care. In actions….not just words.

For those of you saying you are tired of kissing frogs. Instead of thinking the guy is always the frog...Stop and ask yourself could it be possible I’m the frog .After All it takes two in life. Nobody is perfect. Just saying’ and it’s not meant to be an insult. ....only an honest question. I have seen too many people in life who seem to think others are the only problem in life. But very often there are three sides to a story.1) their story 2) your side of the story 3) and the real story. Live in the solution, not the problem...

I have been on this site for a while now, and I find that a lot of people play games...both head-games and heart-games. That is not what I am looking for…I am looking for someone who truly wants to establish a friendship, and see if we can take it to the next level…a relationship.

I am not looking for simply sex, I want the whole package. I want the physical, emotional, and mental.

What ever happened to intimacy in a friendship or relationship…you know, the closeness two people can share in nearly anything they do together, or even when they are simply together and not doing anything at all? That’s the part of the relationship I miss the most.I want to look into someone's eyes, and get completely lost; see their smile, and become mesmerized.

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Information
  • 43 / male
  • Baldwin City, Kansas, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: June 17, 1973
Hometown: Lawrence, Kansas
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Hotel Maintenance
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel