I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I have some draw backs that might be deal breakers, so I'll be up front. 1)I am large, if you know the comedian Gabrielle Iglesias, also known as Fluffy, he says there are levels of size, well I'm at Damn! I know I need to lose it, I know I should have some more self motivation, but it is what it is. Maybe the right person or people would help me stay on track better, though no one can be responsible for the choices of another. 2)I was not graced by god with much below the belt, and the weight makes it a little worse. I still like to get it wet, and my ex said it's great for anal, but ultimately I often rely on my fingers mouth. That said, I'm a nice guy, best friend you could ever want, very easy going, I like just relaxing even by itself, also enjoy cuddling if you do too. I try to prioritize my partners sexual satisfaction over my own, Love to eat out at the Y even if I don't park the car. Try to live by a 2 for 1 rule at least two orgasms for them to one for me. I do enjoy making a twinkie out of my partner. I love foreplay, really enjoy just caressing and massaging them. And I'm not afraid to get a little kinky if they do too.

My Ideal Person While I'd like to find a partner ultimately, I'm very go with the flow and play things by ear. Ideally someone or a couple would be fine with my size, be relatively close, and just be decent human beings.