Please take the time to read my story, which yes, is very long, before dropping me a line. I have been on this site way over a dozen years, sometimes I ask myself why? Most of us that are on this site are looking for sex and adult fun. And to be on here, you need to be pretty open minded. I would think that most all of us can agree with that? And some of us are looking for a real relationships, I guess I am looking for friends, isn't that a real relationship? A lot of the people on here are time wasters, and never follow through on what they say or desire. Or they are here for reasons that have nothing to do with being friends with other people. Enough of the negativity. Well, I am a lucky dude, me and my friends are genuine and sincere. We not only follow through, when we can, but we have a good time too. We are always looking to entertain more like minded people. Maybe we should meet for coffee and talk things over? Speaking of coffee ... why is that people cannot meet for coffee ... why is it that people think they can save themselves time by skipping a meet ... and just demanding pictures ... or make requests that waste time? Again, enough of the negativity, some people are just the way they are. Yes I am married, my wife of 25 plus years, who happens to be my best friend, she is not getting it done, and she knows it. So I find it elsewhere, with other friends, is that a crime? She knows what I am up to, she just pretends like she does not know, does that make any sense? She lets me come and go as I please, as long as it is reasonable hours, and lets me have friends, because that is normal. She knows we have a sexless marriage, and I don't rub it in her face, so she deals with it. And yes we have tried to correct the issues, with no success, it is what it is. Enough of that negativity. I am looking to make friends with persons on this site. Over the past many years, I have made many friends. A lot have come and gone, but several I can still call friends, some very close. Me and a buddy used to/like to entertain our friends at his place. He passed away, so obviously that is not happening anymore. We like to have a few drinks, share a few laughs, maybe eat a meal, and catch up on life's events. You know, normal things that friends do. Sometimes we allow our friends to indulge in adult activities. Ask me if you would like to know more about what goes on at some of these gatherings? I am also here looking to make friends with more ladies. Ladies that get why we are here on AFF? Long term, short term, whatever works for the two of us. I am looking to have a very special friendships? .............. and lets get something clear, I am not a reckless individual. Please read my story carefully, it is what it is. I am a very stable easy going professional man. I am very open, honest, trustworthy, and a really nice guy. I am a dominate man but on the gentle side, but can show a streak of nastiness when need be. I am very flexible, for you ladies who may not want to play naughty, I can also be a very passionate man. Friends with a lot of benefits is Ideally what I am looking for. Ladies that are real and want to have a very special friendship with out getting too serious. I am the type that can let it go without issues, drama or BS when and if it eventually ends. I would expect the same from you, no drama. Maybe some of you ladies would like to help me arrange some three ways? Three ways take a lot of time and patience to make happen. A lot of trust and sincerity is what it takes to get more than two persons to be on the same page. Maybe we become a couple, and go out and visit other couples and become friends with other like minded persons? Maybe we can get naughty, and we can role play and act out. An activity that can be very satisfying for both willing participants. Role playing, there are no surprises, we can act out our wildest imaginations. I am very real and have better things to do then bull shit and waste time. So please be upfront and sincere with me, and I will do the same for you. I will not put my face on this site so please do not ask. I have a wife, a family, a life and a career, I hope you understand. Besides any one can put any ones picture on this site. Not everyone on here is honest, nor real, that is ashamed. The world is made up of all kinds, but I choose to be real and I hope you will treat me with the same respect that I will show you.

My Ideal Person Please take the time to read my story before dropping me a line. Yes it is long, please.

I am looking to meet a lady that would like to have a relationship with a married man, is that possible?

Please except the fact that we can be nothing more than friends with benefits, I am not leaving my wife. But understand, we can be real friends too, is that far fetched, of course not? My last girl friend, it lasted nearly six years, we were wonderful friends. Her unfortunate life's events has caused her to rethink her situation.

I am also looking to meet ladies who would like to go out with me as a couple and meet other friends with benefits. But lets work on us first.

You, like me, must be open, honest, trustworthy and discreet, which is the only way I know how to be. An individual who does not want to get to serious, and would like to have a respectful relationship. It lasts as long as it lasts and when it eventually ends, we break it off with out any issues, bull shit or drama.

Maybe we stay in touch, maybe it happens again.

How about a fuck buddy, we use each other for sex in a respectful way, and when it is over, it is over. It is what it is, and was what it was. It ends without any issues, drama free of any bull shit.

How about role playing and acting out, an activity that satisfies both willing participants. I am pretty open minded to most anything that is safe and sane.

How about a woman who would be open minded to sharing me with another woman. Any ladies out there up for some 3 ways? If everyone is open, honest and respectful, it can be arranged.

Why does everyone seem to think this is rocket science? Why can't everyone just open up and communicate in a respectful way?

What ever happened to meeting for a cup of coffee to discuss?

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