The basic stuff about me is that I hate having my picture taken. The thought of my picture being taken just makes me cringe. So apologies in advance for the mugshots that'll be gracing this site. (Note: My pictures look MUCH better if you close your eyes tightly.....) Let's see.. in short, I work hard, I'm dedicated to my career, to professional development, to enjoying my downtime, having fun when I can, to relaxing when possible, and just generally trying not to let the day to day chaos and silliness get me down. But then that's what beer is for. :) I’m good at cooking.. especially bbq.. (no, not grilling like we do here...but real bbq) finding ways to see the positive in things. After I have a funk moment about it though.I like to mix and match different ingredients and drinks.. so different beers/wines with different foods - whether it's seafood or ribs etc is always a fun time for me. I could have described myself as a foodie, but they only gave me one option soooooo.... I have arthritis in my legs, so if you''re idea of togetherness is running a marathon or climbing a mountain or such like, we won't be a match. Not that I can't go for walks or such like, but anything strenuous on the joints is a no go for me. I am looking for a lasting long term relationship... I don't like or want a 1 night stand. I do have cats.. and if I could I'd have a dog... this means you have to be an animal lover

My Ideal Person if I knew that i still wouldn't be looking...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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