Yes we are both very selective and what we seek is indeed hard to find. Lets see if we are a good fit. Take a chance I am just as scared as you are.
I am a successful 50 year old professional married man who is looking for a female friend, confidant, adviser, sounding board, and someone to look over the edge with while our feet are firmly planted.
Someone who is educated, professional, upscale, married, and also a parent so that we have things in common. Someone grounded and who works hard, plays hard, but also likes to relax and have fun. They like good wine, good micros, good conversation, and the attention of a good man. Someone who enjoys a wide spectrum of interests from urban cultural events to outdoor activities such as hiking, glamping, salmon fishing and everything in between (again so we have things in common, not that we will be able to do lots of these things but you never know). Someone safe, sane, discreet, open minded, perhaps a little neglected too and who is also looking for that long term safe & discreet connection.
We don't know exactly what this will be, or even what we want other than dipping out toe in the water while not risking what we already have. A friend for sure, flirting if we connect and have chemistry. Please be on the Portland side of the river and better yet if your in the Clack, OC, LO, West Linn, Tual, Wilsonville areas.
You bring a nice smile and sparkle in your eye and I will bring the butterfly net.
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My Ideal Person Is not a swinger or has a foot out the door. You are stable, frustrated, and looking for a sane guy to have a discreet relationship.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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|Looking For: Women|
|Birthdate:||June 1, 1964|
|Height:||5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm|
|Smoking:||I'm a non-smoker|
|Drinking:||I'm a light/social drinker|
|Drugs:||I don't use drugs|
|Education:||BA/BS (4 years college)|
|Have Children:||Prefer not to say|
|Glasses or Contacts:||None|