We are an easy-going, open-minded, happily married couple. We have been together over 20 years and enjoy our sex life, but are ready to explore new horizons. We prefer to play as a couple, but also play as singles. When the chemistry is right for both couples, we enjoy foursomes from soft swing to full swap. With VERY select singles and couples, we enjoy one-on-one (m/f) and threesomes (m/f/m). We understand bi-sexuality is part of the lifestyle for many people and we have no issue with it, but we are NOT bi-sexual. We enjoy good conversation, a few drinks, and love to laugh and have fun. When meeting new people, we prefer to start slow and get to know people by meeting in public places, exchanging e-mails, or by instant messaging to explore compatibility. Generally we do not have sex on the first meeting/contact. When we all agree to move forward to adult play, we prefer to socialize first either with dinner, dancing, drinks, or the such, working our way to touching, kissing, and advancing as mutual chemistry permits.

My Ideal Person We are looking for clean, D&D free, people for discreet exploration and adult fun. We prefer couples, married or in a committed relationship, but would consider singles. Couples/Singles new to the lifestyle are welcome as long as they are very clear about their wants and desires and not something they think will impress us. We can take this adventure together. Experienced couples/singles are welcome as long as they will be gentle with us and we will try to be up front and honest with you. Discretion is of utmost importance. SAFE SEX A MUST at all times.

HE is 55 and 5'10" 165lbs, with dark brown hair, mustache and hazel eyes, and still functions like a 30 year old (without meds). SHE is 43 and 5'0" 118lbs petite frame, shoulder-length reddish brown hair, blue eyes and not too hard on the eyes. We are height/weight proportional and prefer the same in others. While age and appearance is not top of the list, unfortunately we all know it does influence those we gravitate towards. HE finds women of most sizes, shapes, and ages beautiful. SHE is more discriminating and picks people (especially men) based on total presentation, intuition, and sex appeal. Men, remember that she is petite, so your height/weight will be a factor.

We have many responsibilities, so our adult fun must be scheduled. We are not available at a whim and cannot entertain.

The photos at this site are recent and give an indication of our body type. Please keep in mind our desire for discretion, we will NOT share facial photos. Please to don't ask for additional photos. If we decide to meet, we will give a description so you can recognize us.

Finally, it is said women are the gatekeepers in the "lifestyle." That being said, SHE has final say about who this couple hooks up with both together or singularly. Therefore, SHE is the person you need to impress. She is impressed with well-written e-mails, well-written profiles, and couples/singles who have truly read our profile and respond accordingly.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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