I absolutely love sex. I do, but I also believe that cursory foreplay followed by a speedy trip down the road to orgasm is an insult to the human capacity for pleasure. The adventure of getting to the goal is often as important as the goal itself. I am a submissive, and with the right per, I can, and definitely want to, give up total control. I'm interested in having my limits pushed sexually, and I don't believe that can happen without taking the time to build a rapport of trust. I need to feel connected to the per I am with in order to be sexual with them. The "F" in FWB is very important to me, therefore, no one night stands. I am selfish...I'm keeping all my stockings, garters, stilettos, and lingerie to myself, I do not find them sexy on a man. If you're interested, drop me a line here on AFF. :) I have nothing pierced but my ears. I only have one tattoo, and it's relatively small and on my arm. I am not multi-orgasmic, my orgasm needs to be earned. I only squirt when it's really, really worth it, and I might go down on a girl once in a while because I feel like it, not for fuckin' shock value, and that doesn't make me bisexual. I have a husband, he knows I'm on here, we are swingers, and he's on here too.

My Ideal Person My ideal person, hmmmmm. Someone that's interested in exploring their limits. Someone sexually intelligent. Someone that's willing to try anything once. Someone that's capable of laughing at themselves. Have you ever built up sexual tension with someone to the point that you just want to slam the person your with up against a wall, rip their clothes off and devour them until you're both just a sweat drenched, exhausted, twitching heap on the floor? No? Well you should try it sometime.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Sting, Velvet Acid Christ, Moby, Rachmaninoff, Litz, Diana
Krall, Harry Connick Jr.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Clive Owen, he's just that rugged type I like. I've
always wanted to do Henry Rollins because he's a very
intelligent man, he's hot, and he seems just a little
out of control.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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