Whatever3579 35 / M
"Now I feel like it. :-p"
Fredericksburg, Virginia, United States
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Whatever3579 35/M
Fredericksburg, Virginia
I finally updated my profile lol. Maybe it'll help, idk! It'd be cool to meet someone before my birthday.
**update: previously I was emphasizing my friend's event idea. I now wish to de-emphasize it, mainly because I find that I'm more likely to have the time and desire to go out on my own and hook up with someone. But that option is still there, too. FYI.

I'm a guy from Fredericksburg, I like to party, i go out a lot, but there doesn't seem to be very many single or otherwise available women in my social circle. So, when my friend came up with an idea to host events at his place where everyone can just "let their freak flags fly," the first thing that came to my mind is that we need to find like-minded women to participate!

In terms of preferences, not set in stone at all, but I prefer blondes or redheads, toned bodies are nice, and my kryptonite is a pretty face. What can I say, I'm a little bit of a sentimentalist, and you have to admit, faces CAN be sexy, right? Nice, round butts are a plus, and I like breasts in all sizes as long as they are proportional! Big fan of the natural (or at least mostly) look. Those porn star women with the big breast implants actually do a pretty good job of turning me off.

I like missionary with your legs over my shoulders.
I like doggy style for different reasons.
I like going hard and fast for a lot longer than you'd think I'd be able to if you ever saw me run. lol.
I like doing the slow and gentle thing too sometimes, but it usually ends hard and fast. I dunno, that just happens.
Most girls I've been with have actually gotten exhausted before me. I'd love to meet someone who can keep up.
Two other things I love: fingering and eating out. I feel like these are underrated practices! I could do either one all day without expecting to go further.

Personally, I'm 6'0" (I swear I'm not exaggerating!) 210 or so pounds, not enough of it is muscle but I'm working on that every other day at the gym lol. But seriously, I've got a bit of a gut, and if someone has some kind of magic pill that will make it go away, I'm down to try. Until then, exercise. As I'm sure you can see from the picture, I'm also pretty hairy. I don't have like a whole lot of back hair or anything, thankfully, but I do have just enough elsewhere that it makes it look weird whenever I want to shave just one area. So shaving isn't a thing. If I do one spot, I gotta do the whole thing, and I don't have the time or the patience for that. I've been told that some people like hairy guys though. I'm cool with that. My ex didn't like all of my hair, but she said she got used to it eventually. I should probably stop talking about this.

Anyway, as I started to say before, I'm pretty much down for whatever. A lot of people complain about it, but I actually really enjoy group sex. That's the kind of stuff my friend and I are looking for: couples, larger groups, whatever. Definitely want to get more women in the group though. It's basically just a really chill environment where you can just relax and do what you feel like doing (within reasonable limitations, obv.). My friend always puts on porn, he's got TVs in almost every room, asks you what type you wanna see. It's a really nice place, clean, friendly if you're down with that, etc.

I'm pushing the party thing because my friend's a great host, but hey, if you just want to talk to me by myself, feel free to shoot me a message or something! I definitely don't bite (not making the obvious joke here).

My Ideal Person I'm pretty sure I went over this in that other section. Oh well, here goes:

Strawberry blonde, blue eyes, full lips but not super full, minimal makeup or at least makeup that looks minimal. In pretty good shape. She's gotta keep up with me, right? Nice, round butt. Not too firm. I like a little squish back there. Breasts? Yes please. I mean, small is perfectly acceptable to me, but "ideal" I suppose would be probably a B or C cup, maybe 30-34 inches around, not really sure how that all works out since I don't really have a frame of reference. The only caveat is that breasts that size are best when firm and able to stand on their own without bra support! Because my ideal girl wouldn't be wearing a bra. lol.

She'd like to wear skirts with knee socks, and she wouldn't always wear anything under them. She'd like to flirt and play. She'd be a master of the "hard to get" game, feigning disinterest for JUST the right amount of time... Too short and it's too easy, too long and I lose interest (or frequently think that she lost interest in me).

And if I'm going for the total package, which I might as well if this person is supposed to be ideal, then I'd want a charming personality, a keen intellect, higher education, well-read, yet still wild (perhaps youthfulness is something I want.).
She should like to party, hang out late, drink, smoke, and have fun, but also be equally at home playing computer games or watching movies based on comic books (kind of a personal obsession). I'm also thinking some experience with role-playing games would be awesome. For the kind of girl I'm thinking, it would probably be Vampire: The Masquerade or Cyberpunk rather than D&D or Warhammer.

And one last thing: openness. I don't mind a little shyness. I don't mind outgoingness. They are both awesome in their own way. I do however like for a girl to feel like she can tell me stuff. Like "you're doing it wrong, go this way" or "I want you to do more of that!" or even "that makes me a little uncomfortable." People should pursue their own pleasure. Not being open about these things that will be much more pleasurable is just shooting yourself in the foot!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 35 / male
  • Fredericksburg, Virginia, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: February 14, 1982
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a heavy smoker
Drinking: I'm a heavy drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Master's degree
Occupation: Other
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: