I'm a Poly/ENM male (33y/o) in the best shape of my life. I would consider myself a 9 through my looks, intelligence, shape, endowment, and talent both physical and artistic. I would not say I'm a 10 solely bc I am 5'9". I have been with the same woman for 10 years and have discovered throughout our relationship that I am poly and she is not. But we have come to respect one another's needs. I am in search of excitement. Living in the moment with the people I meet, wherever that may lead. I'm a switch sexually, but have lived as a Dom most of my life, so when a woman takes control it gives me a feeling of what I've always been missing. I am non judgemental and fluid with my partners sexual preferences. I'll never come into any situation with expectations but rather allow whatever should happen to do so organically. Details about me: I'm a producer for films in Hollywood South I'm a musician who plays numerous instruments I'm a trained opera singer I'm a pilot I'm an athlete, particularly basketball