Hello, thanks for dropping in.Im not here for long term dating, theres plenty of other sites for that.Im looking for regular safe, clean, partners or ONS.I like to be in control but have been know to let the lady be the boss on occasion.I can be as shy or as forward as you like, like the old clich I do not bite, unless you want me to.I live alone apart from my recuse a Frenchie it is a nice home and offers discretion and privacyI used to be on here many years ago and was an active member of the Bradford scene but came off when I found a long term partner, it didnt work out, we had 10 years of a kind of bliss, but thats just life, we live we learn.Im a well educated chap, I like to keep in reasonably good shape and work out a few times a week.I read and would say my favourite writer is John Grisham. Im also a bit of a scifi geek, I enjoy chilling out, watching films and listening to music, I can listen to most genres. Long walks and weekends away are my favoured way to unwind, oh and Im a geek for a good karaoke!Ive been to see many live bands and shows and enjoy comedy nights.I would say I am interesting company, but thats just my opinion and lets be honest I am trying to sell myself here. I can converse on many subjects and am fairly open minded and easy to get on with.We can chat if youd like and then maybe meet for a coffee or something a little stronger if you fancy it.I look forward to hearing from you.