I am a young-looking older guy in his fifties, starting to put on some extra pounds (it's this growing older thing; the pounds just don't drop off as easily). I'm always interested in meeting new people and trying different things. Love to hear suggestions.

My Ideal Person I am interested in anything and everything. I have few expectations when meeting new friends and am very open to whatever comes my way. Friendship is great, sex is wonderful, sex with more than one other person is even better. I don't have any real "specifics" in what I'm looking for in another person. Everyone is different. We're all individuals. And whenever I've made up guidelines I've usually met someone who has broken them--much to my delight.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Cream, Tori Amos, Joe Satriani

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Well, they change from day to day. I'm blessed with a active imagination. But if I have to pick just one, an old favorite of mine is as follows.
An attractive woman friend, Nancy, comes over to watch a movie. To date, we have been just good friends but we are fairly open with each and have great conversations.
While I am fixing drinks and snacks, she goes to my DVD library to pick out a movie to view. She stumbles across one of my porn flix in the back of the self, and when I arrive back in the room she holds it and says, "So, what is this?" A first I think I might be in trouble but she is smiling. So I say, "So you found a film to watch," meaning it to be a joke.
But responds that she has always wanted to see a porno film so why don't we watch it. I'm a bit surprised, but figure that we will wind up watching a bit of the film to satisfy her curiosity and then move on to a regular flick for the rest of the evening.
My place is a bit drafty and it's chilly, windy night. I've broken out two blanket, one for each of us, to keep the chill off. We curl up on either end of the couch wrapped up in our individual blankets with the snack tray between us. And we start watching the flick.
Initially, I am rather embarrassed. The opening scene is: guys are masturbating; girls are kissing each other; the girls start exploring each other's bodies--a common scene in porno. But I am very much aware that I am watching this with my good friend who just happens to be very attractive; and I am somewhat afraid to look over to see how she is reacting to all of this. But my reaction, on the other hand, is extreme: intensely aware of Nancy a few feet away, I am finding the flick that I have seen often enough to normally finding boring is now incredibly arousing, and I am indeed aroused--and am very thankful for the blanket. I can imagine my embarrassment if Nancy could see how hard I was. Without the blanket, it would be impossible to hide.
Finally, I look over at Nancy. She is cuddled up under her blanket watching the film with what I think is a serious face. I don't think it is disapproving but I'm not sure. But she is focused on it. I asked, "So, what do you think?" Nancy replies matter-of-factly, "Interesting!" Interesting, I think, that could mean any number of things. So, I say, "Elaborate." "Well, it is definitely exciting," she says, and she grins hugely. The effect that grin had on me! I swear I almost came. Then she asked, "What do you think." I say, "Well, it is definitely very different watching this film with you than watching it by myself." "In what way?" she asks. "Far more exciting," I reply. "Really?" she asks. "Oh, yes," and it's my turn for a huge grin.
The she surprises me. She asks, "You aren't by any chance masturbating under that blanket, are you?" "Ah, no..." I reply. "But you'd like to?" she asks. "Well... yes..." I say and then ask "How about you?" "Oh, I definitely want to!"
From that point on, the path is inevitable.
We start playing with ourselves under our individual blanks at either end of the couch casting shy glances back and forth at first.
Soon we aren't just glancing at each; we are watching each other more than we are watching the flick. I get bold and take my pants off and toss them out from under the blanket. Nancy laughs and a moment later her jeans land on the floor beside mine.
In not too many more minutes we are naked beneath our blankets, laughing and feeling gloriously naughty. Every now then when glance at the film, but our eyes quickly come back to each other.
I am now using both hands, one hand on my balls and one on my cock, and no hands to hold the blanket up--so it slips down my chest but still covers my lap. But it is bouncing up and down pretty fervently now. Nancy has switch positions a bit, is using both hands as well, and it appears to me that she is using one hand in front and one behind. My imagination is soaring at the moment. What exactly are those lovely hands doing?
With no hands available to hold her blanket and being sort of on her side, her blanket slips, first down off her breasts--I gawk--then slowly down her hip. She laughs, throws me a big smile, and tosses the blanket completely aside. Of course, I have to reciprocate. We glory in voyeurism for quite a few minutes. I hardly believe that the woman across from me is actually my good friend Nancy.
Eventually I say, "You know, it really is rather cold without the blankets." She simply says, "Yes it is." I get up, set the snack tray on the floor, recover a blanket from the floor, and pull it over the both of us as I join here on her end of the couch. Neither of us had any idea when the movie ended.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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