You've been thinking about inviting a third to join you, but don't want to make it awkward. If only it could happen naturally, without any drama. A spur of the moment sort of thing. It can. It just takes a little planning. We share the same fantasy. Whether it's lunch, dinner, or drinks, let's set the stage for something crazy. Keep some of the details private, but share the important ones. Such as where you're going and when you'll be there. And, something to help me recognize you. I may just be dining at the same location, and may notice you from across the room. Imagine sitting down to eat, not knowing if today or tonight may be the time that attractive stranger sits down to join you. When he asks if there's room for another, your heart skips a beat. Where things go from there is entirely up to you. An evening of simple flirting, or maybe something more. You give me a sign (maybe going to the washroom and removing your thong, and passing it to me under the table?), and we'll go from there. A pic is always appreciated, especially if you want a response. At the very least, I will need something to identify you by. I don't usually send face pics (part of the fantasy is the stranger aspect), but exceptions are possible. Also, guys, if you haven't at least discussed this with your wife, what do you really think is going to happen? Please don't waste my time, and I won't waste yours. And finally, while I don't need to know your names or any identifiers, I would at least like some idea on your background (age, race, occupation).

Mi persona ideal: Preference is for mature (over 35) women and couples. Distance is not an issue. I travel regularly for work.