I am predominantly looking for a tall, experienced Dom who would be willing to train me further. I have some experience in submission and particularly enjoy: impact play (floggers, whips, crops, canes), restraints (cuffs, ropes, chains, spreader bars), instructions/commands/tasks, exhibitionism and role play. I am not interested in meeting married or attached men (unless you are in an open or polyamorous relationship).

My Ideal Person 1) Age: between 32 and 50 (younger men - I have my reasons and it has nothing to do with inexperience!)
2) 6 feet tall (or over) - I'm 5 foot 9 inches (up to 6 foot 3 in heels) and I don't want to feel like a giant when I'm stood next to someone!
3) Local: up to an hours drive away seems reasonable but closer would be better.
4) Hair: As the saying goes, " Tall, dark and handsome". That's what I like (although other shades of hair are fine too) I just like hair.
5) Someone who looks after themselves physically.
6) Experience in BDSM - Don't send me a message calling me 'your cum slut' or tell me you'd like to throw/slap me around the bedroom.That suggests you have no idea what a D/s relationship is about
7) Someone who would be good company at a 'party'.
Intelligence: The largest sexual organ in a woman is her brain! If that's not turned on then nothing else will be either!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A dark back alley, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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