I'm an older guy who is looking to try some new things. I'm married. My wife and I have been married a long time and have had an open relationship for many years. She is fully aware of what I do. She has some idea of my curiosities, explained below, but she is not interested in participating in them, or on her own. Over the years I've met a few ladies on this site and had some great times! Now I want to expand on those experiences and try things that haven't been within reach before. Compatibility is key and I believe it is good to know someone, at least a little, before getting too far into things. I am not a fan of quickie meet and fuck dates. Obviously I love being with a woman and making her feel special. But I am also moderately interested in experiencing some fun with a male. I've never been with a guy before but the desire to try has been been a bug in my mind for quite some time. I'm pretty sure I would want to try mutual JO, and possibly oral, to start. I'd possibly be open to more, but it would depend on the circumstances. Unfortunately I cannot host as there is someone at my house almost all of the time. I'm not a huge fan of motel hookups, but if that is what it takes, I could probably be swayed.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: When I'm with a woman, I love those who are soft and have some extra padding. I'm not a fan of extremely thin girls. Height etc. does not matter to me and I do like to get to know who I am with a bit before the clothes come off.

In the case that something materializes in the male arena, my preference would be someone who has a similar mindset as me. One who is curious to try something out of the norm, but hasn't made that move yet. If it is with someone who has some experience, I would ask that you keep in mind that I have zero experience with this.

I would also prefer someone of the same physical build as myself. I'm a bigger guy. I have some extra padding, but not hanging all over the place. Circumcised is preferred.

Last, but not least, I will only meet with folks who do not smoke or do drugs. I do not partake and am not interested in those who do.

So, if you check off all those boxes, let me hear from you.

Welke seksuele activiteiten winden u op?:
Orale seks geven, Orale seks ontvangen, Anale seks, Speeltjes (Vibrators/Dildo's/enz.), Rimmen, Trio's, Gelijktijdig masturberen, "Thuisfilmpjes" maken, Deelnemen aan erotische fotografie, Voyeurisme

Welke factoren zijn het belangrijkst wanneer u op zoek bent naar een seksuele partner?:
Discreet kunnen zijn, Openstaan voor een trio en/of orgie, Libido, Bereidheid om openlijk alles te bespreken en te proberen, Bereidheid een ongebonden seksuele relatie aan te gaan

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Ik heb regelmatig cyberseks.

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