SafelyFirm 56 / M
"FWB, not SOB!"
chicago, Illinois, United States
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SafelyFirm 56/M
chicago, Illinois
I'm a well-educated man who loves women's bodies. I want to give you as much pleasure as you will give me. I work hard but have a flexible daytime schedule. I am 100% discrete and expect the same from you. Drug, disease and drama free and plan to stay the way. I work out regularly. Safe sex a must. If you want to explore and enjoy your sexuality in a safe and discrete way, then take a good look at my profile. As a standard male member I can't initiate contact, send flirts or, in a recent change, read your messages. Try lothairio1 which you can find at good old y..oo.

My Ideal Person Ideally I'm looking for a full-figured woman for occasional and discrete sex. She needs to be available during the day. We might meet once a month, once every two weeks, or once a week depending on our schedules and needs. If you're looking for a safe and discrete partner who will both give and take pleasure, I'm your man. I am a good partner for both older women seeking pleasure and younger women who may wish to gain experience or experiment safely. I particularly enjoy MILFs. I also enjoy group sex and have participated in about two-dozen gangbangs. Remember, I can't read messages you send.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite sexual fantasy:

You, a buxom woman and 6 men (could be more). I kiss and caress you and then pass you on to the next man. When the
last man has kissed and caressed you, I remove your blouse
and each man touches and caresses you. When you return to
me I remove your bra, turn you around, place your hands behind
your head, and fondle your beautiful breasts. Each man
does likewise. Then, your pants are removed and each man
runs his hands along your legs, your breasts, your face,
and your hair. I remove your panties and my fingers stimulate
you and you close your eyes and softly moan with pleasure.
I lead you to a bed and lie you down. I place pillows under
your back so your beautiful breasts are lifted. One man
takes holds of your hands, separates them, and gently but
firmly holds them down while 2 others take one leg each and
gently but firmly spread them. One man fondles and sucks
each breast. Another man kisses and caresses your face. I enter you and
as I thrust I watch you moan with pleasure. Your back arches
as you lift your breasts in pleasure, and each time I thrust
you lift to meet me. Your breathing quickens, your breasts
become firm, and your body aches with pleasure. Ecstasy
courses through your body, as each thrust brings you closer
to heaven. Your moaning becomes louder. You cum with a gasp
and I finish, taking pleasure in having both given and taken
pleasure. The men rotate and another man has the opportunity
to move you deeply.

Here’s another fantasy (I enjoy writing these; I'd
enjoy even more experiencing them!): This one involves you, two female
friends, and six men. It’s a variation on spin the bottle. We
all meet and chat. The three of you make sure you are all wearing the
same amount of clothing (blouse, bra, panties, stockings,
pants or skirts). I sit your down on the floor in a circle
and carefully place blindfolds on each of you. Then I spin
the bottle. It points to you, a beautiful, sensual, voluptuous
woman aching for the sweet caress and firm touch of the men
so close to her. I roll the dice and the number that comes
up is the man who starts. He has one minute to kiss and caress
you. Then, in turn, each of the other men has 30 seconds. The bottle
is spun again and this time it lands on one of your friends.
She, too, is kissed and caressed. Again and again the bottle
is spun. When the bottle points to you for a second time it
entitles you to have your blouse removed, slowly, lovingly,
erotically. The next time it is your pants or skirt. When
it is time to remove your stockings strong hands stroke
your legs as your stocking are removed. I am very lucky because
when it is time to remove your bra I am the guy who gets to do
it. I unhook it from behind and as it slips to the floor two
of my compatriots take your hands from behind and gently
pull them back over your head. Your back arches and I reach
around to fondle you. You sigh and arch even more to push
against my firm hands. When my minute is up each man in turn
sucks your beautiful breasts or fondles them from in front
and behind and up in down. All the men notice that your panties
are wet. For we all know that the next time the bottle points
to you it will bring the deepest pleasure to all of us. And
you are the lucky girl. The bottle points to you in panties
before either of the other women. I spin the dice to determine
how many men you will enjoy, and will enjoy you, in this encounter.
A quick yes rises from the men, as does 6 something elses,
as a six appears on the dice meaning that you will enjoy all
of the men in this encounter. Some want oral, others want
deep penetration from behind. On your hands and knees on
the bed, I penetrate deep into you from behind, caressing
your breasts as I thrust in a slow, steady, rhythmic way.
You push back each time I thrust forward, as I go deeper and
deeper into you. The tautness in your body builds as you
come closer and closer to orgasm. Your body shows it, your
moans show it, and I can feel it deep within you. You come
with one of the best orgasms you have ever experienced.
Then, the next man has you as he wants. When all six men are
done, you and your friends dress and the whole procedure
starts again. Who knows who will win the jackpot next time,
and with how many men she will share it. We continue until
we are all too tired to do anymore.

A third fantasy: We are in your living room with slow music playing and the lights dimmed. With our shoes
off we place our arms around each other and begin to dance
to slow, romantic music. After a few minutes of swaying
to the music I carefully unbutton and remove your blouse.
You do the same to my shirt. As we dance I feel your nipples
tighten through your bra as it rubs against my chest. Then,
I turn you around, unhook your bra and let if fall off of your
shoulders to the ground. I caress your back, run my hands
through your hair, and then raise your hands to the back
of my head. I gently tilt your head back and reach my hands
around you and firmly caress your breasts as we sway to the
music. In a few minutes I turn you around, kiss, and suck
your breasts as we continue to dance oh so slowly. Then the
pants come off. I feel the wetness in your panties and you
feel the firmness in me. We make our way slowly to either
the couch, the kitchen table, or your bed. I lay you down,
gently remove your panties, and place pillows under your
back so your breasts are lifted to their full beauty. With
one hand and my mouth I stimulate your breasts while the
other hand goes up and down your hot, wet, vagina. I hear
you moan with pleasure and it encourages me to continue.
When you're ready I take each of your ankles with a hand
and spread your legs wide apart. I penetrate you and hear
your sigh of pleasure. I rest your legs on my shoulders so
my hands are free to stimulate your breasts and your clitoris.
I thrust to the music and with each thrust you arch to meet
me. Like the waves on the sea we go up and down, in and out,
in a slow, steady rhythm. The music is in us as you reach your
crescendo and your body moves to climax. You come with a
deep moan and I follow soon after.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Restraints

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I prefer real women

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 56 / male
  • chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman) or Groups
Birthdate: March 20, 1960
Travels to: Killington, Vermont, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Separated
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Occupation: professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, French
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None