What to say ..... and how to say it briefly? I recently ended a long term relationship so I am feeling rather shell shocked. I am torn between wanting to be licentious and indulge every fantasy, and wondering if my white picket fence dream of a family with ren is still possible. Ah, the white picket fence dream .... I love ren. I wonder if fulfilling such a dream is still possible at my age. It would mean finding a woman younger than me - someone with a mother's love, a God honouring heart, a hedonist's sense of adventure and the patience of a saint. All that and not be a ! Does someone like that exist? Is this but the wildest of my fantasies? Such dreams are elusive. But that only makes me treasure friendships more. And that's what I am looking for here. I may be a hedonist but I like to treat people with respect. If we are not looking for love we can at least offer civility. So my fetishes include acting like a gentleman and reminding women that they are beautiful! I try to treat my lover with respect outside the bedroom so that she can trust me when I take charge in the bedroom and try to make her feel honoured and treasured! I like to do other fun things too. I like to take pictures and short videos, in a way that reveals my lover as beautiful but hides her identity. It’s great fun and it involves wigs, masks, boas, and an executioner’s hood. It is a silly, wonderful, and long story best told over coffee or during a dinner date. :-D There are other more provocative adventures that fascinate me, some that I have enjoyed (and want to enjoy again), and others that I wish to enjoy. They are the sort of thing that a gentleman doesn’t discuss, but age boys fantasize about them and poets sing about them! The one thing I know about such adventures is that they are best enjoyed by two rather than one. So what am I seeking? The white picket fence dream, I suppose. But what do I hope to find? Friends; cuddle buddies (‘friends with benefits’ and ‘f-ck buddies ‘are crass, inadequate descriptions for my taste). Ladies I can trust in friendship; couples who are unpretentious. All who are willing to let me be both a gentleman and a lover. What can I offer? I must honestly say I can’t offer the commitment required for a long term relationship. I am just too shell shocked right now. But I can offer respect; civility; recreational worship! Hours of kissing (I love to kiss!); hugs; a distain for tobacco, alcohol, and drugs. (Please! Be a non-smoker – I have allergies.) I can offer conversation where I listen more than I talk. I can offer the longest of hugs (and hopefully a minimum of snoring) as we fall asleep together, exhausted and overwhelmed by joy! What happens after that? Well .... that’s just part of the adventure, isn’t it?

좋아하는 섹스 환타지에 대해 알려주세요. 주저하지 마세요!:
Whatever the scenario I just like to be intensely in the
moment. My ultimate fantasy is to be with a lover I can trust
completely as we explore new things and have new adventures.

어떤 타입의 성적 활동이 흥분되나요?:
오럴섹스 주기, 오럴섹스 받기, 3인 섹스, 상호 자위행위, 홈 무비 제작, 에로틱한 사진에 참여하기, Kissing/ Cuddling

섹스 파트너를 찾을때 어떤 요인이 가장 중요한가요?:
섹스에 대해 자유롭게 대화하고 새로운 것을 시도하는 것을 좋아하는가, Maturity and a sense of adventure

유명인사와 섹스를 하는 것에 대한 환상을 가져 본 적이 있나요? 그렇다면 누구이며 왜 그들인가요?:
Hey - I AM a celebrity. :-)

사이버 섹스 경험이 있나요?:
전혀 없습니다. 실제만 좋아합니다

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