PartTimeLoverGrl 44 / F
"I AM a party girl and you WILL find me at some sort of kink event nearly every Saturday night."
Magna, Utah, United States
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PartTimeLoverGrl 44/F
Magna, Utah
Just looking for a break from reality.
Yes I am a party girl, but I am a sober party girl. This means I have fun, enjoy it, can consent to the activities, and remember it the next day!
I am 5'5" 255lbs with eyes that change color and auburn hair.

I am demisexual, sapiosexual, pansexual and grey-a sexual. If those are unfamiliar terms to you then Google that shit, seriously...

I am in a polyamorous marriage. We both date separately and I am not looking for anyone to join us. He does know and I do have to adjust my play around his schedule. (He is a recent amputee so I have to make sure his needs are met before I go out on a date and leave him home alone.)

I may be looking for just sex, NSA, discreet, or a girl on the side kind of situation (depends on the partner). I am looking for someone who is interested in hanging out, going hiking, grabbing something to eat, or just sitting and talking about nothing.

Stimulate my mind in order to stimulate my body. No really!!! If you Googled the above words you know that I am stimulated by knowledge and I do not care about the size, shape, color, or age of your body if your brain can stimulate me.

I no longer have sex on the first date. I always meet for coffee to see if there is any chemistry. If so we can plan a date, yes a date not "hook up" (there are LOTS of girls on here looking for a fast fuck. I am not one of them.)

You must be willing to invest some time (via text, phone calls, in person, etc.) in order to get me to open up and trust you. BUT once you do I will let you into my crazy kinky exciting life that is full of any fantasy you can imagine. (YES I say that with all seriousness, if you have seen it in videos, or imagined it I can lead you to where you can have your fantasy fulfilled. I enjoy seeing my partners be pleased, even if it is not something I can personally do.)

If you have made it this far I give you props. So mention in your message that you have bonus points. Now for the serious shit...and here I will add that although I am grey-a the grey part is because I really enjoy giving oral. HOWEVER, I must like the person first. I like to touch and feel different sizes, shapes, and textures, but if I like someone I like to perform this service for them. The asexual part of me does not require that he return the favor and I rarely actually fuck so if you are looking for a fuck and bounce I am probably not the girl for you. I am also not the girl who blows every guy she meets. I am quite selective, but well worth it. I have a lot of kinks and am still exploring and evolving (aren't we all). If you have a kink you are into then, please let me know about it!

My Ideal Person I am looking for people who will text, sext, and chat on the phone at least once before meeting. (Believe it or not I can hear when someone is smiling.)

I am in an open polyamours marriage. If you are looking for a friend with the potential to lead to more than friends then we should chat. My husband dates too, but we date separately. I DO have a playroom/red room so the only issue with hubby is making sure we do not plan to have our own dates in there at the same time.

If you are intelligent that is a HUGE turn on. My weaknesses include, education, people who use big words (and understand what said words mean), grease/sweat combination from working on vehicles, motorcycles, and leather. OMG if you wear leathers you go to the front of the line. If you wear leathers AND can hold a conversation with big words I will probably suck your dick while you talk.

Who's up for a challenge?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 44 / female
  • Magna, Utah, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: December 26, 1972
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Pampered Housewife
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Pagan
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 44 / 100 D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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