PIGME 45 / M
"Cool, Real, Open Minded Sensual Semi-Normal Hedonistic Guy"
Union County, New Jersey, United States
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Union County, New Jersey
Stop winking and hotlisting and message me but include your face pics.
I'm single (divorced not jaded) clean, disease and drug free, always smell good and clean shaven face, don't smoke (quit a long time ago). I'm level headed but love to let loose.

I am a bit of a romantic at heart but also a hedonist. I'm a straight shooter, no drama expect the same, also no scorn jaded people who don't have control of their emotions, not looking for a train wreck.

Sex is great an adult dating site can help find like minded folks but great sex involves passion and while not looking to jump into a relationship I'd definitely consider it with the right person.

I'm an open minded guy so if you are devilish, maybe a lil' kink on the mind but not a mentally dysfunctional or intellectually handicapped person looking for a counselor we can talk. I'm not pushy and respect boundaries but hey the point of this site is to meet in person offline so please have pics or send them in first email, discretion is assured because nobody needs to know our business.

I'm a gentleman who likes to get down and dirty and have fun without all the sexual shyness, don't be too coy. I love dirty talk before and during sex, expressing yourself and that inner lust is what I find hot.

commitment free sexual relationship sounds enticing and can be fun and I would not mind that however eventually finding my true partner and love would be the ultimate fantasy come true. This partner should have a willingness to openly discuss with each other our fantasies, kinks and depraved deviant urges and willing to explore and try them. Trust, honesty and not hiding anything from each other is key...

Although I am into kink exploration with a fellow sensual kinky hedonist and devoted lover, I am not desperate for a relationship but if I happen to find the ying to my yang that would be wonderful and I wouldn't be stupid and turn my back on that.

I would love to be in a loving caring relationship one where we trust each other and explore together and support each others kinks and deviant minds. To me passion is of the mind and a good mind fuck can be just as if not more erotic than one simply of the flesh.

I am not desperate so no crackheads or fugly folks, you know who you are also not into big girls, sorry just my preference not arrogance just know what I like so please don't take offense, that's not why I'm here.

What you see is what you get with me, no time for games, I'm self employed so work a bit. I'm serious enough at work, like to relax and let loose when out or home so a playful supportive woman would be nice but no matter if it's just a fling you seek or possibilities of a relationship please do contact me.

Just be normal, sane, respectful, with a good head on your shoulders and a total slut inside waiting to be shared with with me and taking comfort knowing I won't tell the world how wild you really are, unless that's your thing.

Don't be uptight about sex or talking open and honestly about it. Share with me what turns you on, I won't judge and that turns me on.

I'm open to polyamorous relationships and swinging however can't say I've been involved in either before, well kinda.

I'm comfortable with one person or several just for first meets 1 on 1 is my preference. I've been with singles, couples and have been with a woman cuckolding her husband before so obviously open minded and comfortable with my sexuality and other people comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality as long as we're all comfortable with the situation.

I'm more of a face, leg ass man attracted to petite but open to anyone in decent shape which includes average.

You MUST be clean and have good hygiene (it's a shame I had to say that) and be disease free.

I'm down to earth with many interests, respectful but love to get down and dirty and have a good time so would be cool if you do to.

A regular playmate would be most awesome, NSA but open to developing something more, I'm okay with dating without expectations, going to movies, grabbing a drink, etc. as in FWB but open to more.

I work a lot and not a sex crazed maniac screwing anything that moves, I'm actually quite selective but open to situations and can be a bit of a hedonist when in the mood, which is like always.

Please DO NOT put your contact info in your first messages, they get blocked by AdultFriendFinder so let's talk a little here first, I'm in no rush usually the fakes are.

Please introduce yourself with your name and profile handle, a clear face pic, don't live on the other side of the country or in another unless you plan on moving here soon. Sending a few of your RECENT face and bod pics would be nice and nudies always welcome.

I have pics of myself to share but don't be a pic collector and send yours if you'd like to see anymore of mine or don't ask. I won't continue talking to you without seeing a few of your recent pics, please no fake glamour shots that look like you found them on the net it's obvious when that is done. Pics in every day situations are most genuine or self taken in front of the bathroom mirror I don't mind.

No excuses for not having pics, I don't want to hear it. My mother can even take a picture using her cell phone and get it online.

I'm not into endless emails, cyber, phone or cam'ing, call me crazy but I prefer in person interactions with others and the physical touch of another person with passion. I won't cam or text so don't ask!


My Ideal Person I expect you to be nice, easy to talk to, just a cool person who happens to like sex and either looking for a relationship or just fun but be honest about it.

If you just created a standard profile and only have one pic, no pics or 10 of the same, you WILL BE IGNORED!

No endless email games, cyber play, don't ask me to vote for your pics on another site or cam, it's not going to happen. If you don't live at or within about 50 miles of me or willing to travel here or meet half way, don't bother.

You should be sane, have good hygiene and be Disease Free. Be Cool, sexy, and ready willing and able to play. NO worries I am a very low pressure kind of guy so if we meet and we don't click I have no problems just talking a little. Please be honest, so sick of all the liars here and please look like your pics or I will leave.

Be in fairly decent shape not a fat slob or person without enough common sense to wash their privates or brush their fucking teeth. NASTY!!!

I'm no Adonis but do take care of myself and expect the same in you. I'm not expecting super models but expecting others to take care of themselves shouldn't be too much to ask.

I'm comfortable and open sexually, enjoy it with the lights on and with those willing to let loosen be playful and up to having a good time, laugh, kiss, lick, rub, tug, tell me what you like, talk during sex, communication is sexy and just enjoy yourself, that to me is a turn on and lets just have a good time. Isn't that what we're all here for anyway?

If you look like a junky or all busted up like a crack ho, don't call on me. I'm a nice guy and polite but come on!

Please be sexy, I don't care if you're the tomboy type which can be sexy too. I love stockings, thigh highs, short skirts, high heels, sun dresses and lingerie, that's hot (no I don't wear them). Dare to be sexy, dare to have fun, dare to call me!

LOVE LOVE LOVE sexy petite, in shape women but I like all types, small breasts, large breasts, slim to average builds, but don't have a woob or gut.

I'm very open minded but also very discreet person, and not because I'm hiding from anyone. I AM SINGLE.

You should NOT be...
A HOOKER, SPAMMER OR RESEARCHER or FAKE (That rules out 97% of the profiles on all this networks sites. Sorry but paying for a service that seems to encourage this behavior for higher membership counts just sucks and downright criminal to me.

Way too many damn fake profiles here but still here because there are some nice genuine people to.

Also you shouldn't be a snob or an escapee from a mental institution. If you are just looking for sex that's fine BUT be fairly decent looking & reasonably fit, no chubs or slobs.

You MUST be Disease Free (I am and expect the same)
You MUST be Discreet (Not because of relationship or hiding anything, my personal life is just not anyone's damn business)
You MUST be Willing to meet at some point, not just Cyber and endless online exchanges.

I'm Just trying to be honest about what I'm like and looking for. I'm not shallow just know what I like.

If you want to know more about me just ASK, Please ask!!!

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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 45 / male
  • Union County, New Jersey, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: January 1, 1972
Hometown: Rahway, New Jersey, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Professional
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Very thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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