Hello! I love meeting fun, open minded, adventurous people who enjoy adult relationships...Are you adventurous, is that why you are here? Do you need some spice to add to an already fulfilling busy life? Are you looking for a partner in crime? Do you already know what that crime is? If not, I’ve got a ton of suggestions! ABOUT ME: Please allow me to say that I don't believe I'm your average man. A lifetime of experiences in and out of the bedroom opens up possibilities for you and I to share. Have I wrestled crocodiles or climbed the Sierra Mountains? Mmmm no, but I’ve traveled extensively, owned businesses, toured in rock bands, taught classes, acted on stage and TV, composed and produced music, written in magazines, played sports…. and a few other things…  If I’ve message you, I've read your profile and you've riddled me with curiosity and I’m interested in meeting you! If you stumbled across this profile and YOU are riddled with curiosity or just plain riddled... send me a message! Why wouldn't you? Alright then, this is what I suggest…. First, I would like to start out taking you to dinner or drinks at your favorite place where you can be relaxed and comfortable. I'm very easy to talk to, will make you laugh and we can talk about life and sexy possibilities. I hope to intrigue you...What is it that you want? There is nothing I like more than to please my partners so I will listen intently and quite possibly make a few mental notes for later ;) If we are on the same page, that would be fantastic and we can make delicious plans! Maybe set out on a path to fulfill our “Sexual Bucket List”. If we don’t happen to "click", then we will have had a great evening all the same. There are TONS of single men here, but take a chance and reach out to me and maybe WE might wrestle a crocodile or climb the Sierras! 

My Ideal Person Along with Single Ladies, I especially enjoy meeting couples and many of them tell me that most single men don't know how to approach them or follow through.

I'd like to share my personal insights with what I call "MY PERSONAL ETIQUETTE FOR THE SINGLE MAN". I hope it will reveal something about me with regard to meeting new friends. (Although this is geared towards couples it applies when contacting and meeting single ladies as well...)

From my experience and from listening to the horror stories from couples about single men, I would like to offer my beliefs on how a Single Man should behave if they want to be be invited to play with couples:

First and foremost remember you are a dime a dozen on AdultFriendFinder.
If you are not comfortable being naked around or can’t perform with another man present do not contact a couple.
If your initial contact is 5 lines or less, chances are you will not get a response.
In your initial contact, do not tell a couple what you want to do to the lady. It’s really not about you, it’s about them.
Tell them a little about yourself. Be respectful, use humor and compliment them on the things on their profile that interests you. Be open to answering their questions and expect them. The best most serious couples always do.

MEETING THEM:
Remember you only have one person's schedule to plan around. A couple has themselves plus their children's schedule to think about so be patient.
Be discreet about meeting but do not ask to meet in your car or a parking lot or on a street. Instead try a bar, restaurant or coffee shop. Let them know that the only expectation you will have of them is meeting.
Show up, show up, show up! If you are delayed or an emergency happens, notify them immediately. If you do not notify them, you’ve lost your chance!
Upon meeting chances are you will be nervous and so will they. This is normal. To overcome this have a drink, be humorous talk about things other than the lifestyle. Once everyone is relaxed and comfortable try flirting.
Do not ask for their address or where they work. They will tell you only if they want to.
Engage hubby in your conversation. He is part of the experience and represents 50% of the decision.
If you are interested let them know and suggest a possible location.
Ask them if they are interested then leave and go to the washroom or somewhere. This gives them time to discuss it privately as opposed to putting them on the spot. Always respect their decision and do not attempt to change their minds. If they do express interest, remember it is a privilege that you have been given and with everything happens after that, keep that in mind.

PLAYING:
Ask them for their “do's” and “dont's”. Inquire about their fantasies with a single man. Listen!
Most times you will need to make the first move to get the action started. I find standing behind the lady rubbing her arms and caressing her neck gently to be effective.
Remember you are there to complement hubby in pleasuring the lady--not to compete with him. For hubby it is a celebration of his security with his lady. You are not there because he needs help.
Never assume that you can do everything to the lady that the husband does to her.
Do not try and convince them that they should try something if they already told you no. Ex. Anal sex.
Bring your own condoms. Chances are they do not use it between themselves so why should they have any.
Try your best to not climax before the lady.
If you are enjoying it let hubby know how lucky he is to have such a lady.
If hubby wants to watch or participate respect his decision.
Sense what really turns them on and focus on that.

AFTER THE PLAYING:
Let them know if they would like to get together again for them to contact you, not you contacting them. This prevents clinginess and that you do not become a part of their lives. This might be a one time thing so respect that.
Never ever ask the lady to meet you alone, behind hubby's back.
Remember the lady may have gone to bed with you but it is hubby she wants to wake up to.
Don't overstay your welcome and do not assume you will be staying the evening unless you have been invited at some point. You might only be their "appetizer". Couples have told me sex between them is intense after a get together with other people and graciously allow for that to happen.
Let them know that if you saw them in public with their friends that you will make eye contact but never approach them. This will prevent placing them in an awkward situation with their friends.
Ask them if you could write a testimonial to vouch for their character so that others will know that they are real and not game players. Do not be offended if they say no. Some people like to keep it private.
Again, you have been given the privilege of being intimate with them and remember the first advice--We are a dime a dozen.

ETIQUETTE FOR COUPLES:

Couples: We know there are LOTS of guys on here and you get bombarded with emails, some not so nice but I assure you there are Diamonds among the rocks! If we take the time to write a nice email and contact you very respectfully and politely (if your profile says that you are looking for men) and you are not interested please respond with a quick “No thank you” . . We then add your handle to the Block List so that we will not bother you again.

Believe me we will respect you more for that than to be ignored. If we don’t get a response, we might contact you again thinking you did not receive our email or maybe the timing isn’t right. The last thing we want to do is pester you . Think of it like being at a club and you ask someone to dance. How would you feel if they just ignored you and not responded? It is simple courtesy folks. You advertised yourselves and someone responded respectfully to your ad.

If you are interested but cannot commit to meeting on a certain day, then please write back and say so and we will understand and stay in touch until the timing is better and try and work around your schedule.

Until a date is committed to, it does not mean that we will sit around waiting and become inactive. We have to pursue other options until someone is committed to meeting us. If we contact you on Monday for a Sat meeting and we have received no response by Wed, even though you have been online, then we will contact others. If we contact someone and they have committed to meeting us and then you contact us on Friday saying that you want to meet on Sat, do not be offended if we tell you that we have commitments that we have to honor.

CONTACTING US
Contact us the way you would like to be contacted. Do not contact us if this is just hubby’s idea and he wants to see his wife with another man. It has to be 100% from both.
Let us know your schedule so that we can work around it.
Let us know beforehand if you want to take pictures. Do not bring out a camera in the middle of playing and start taking pictures or movies.
If we meet at a bar/restaurant and you know that there is absolutely no chemistry tell us immediately. Believe me we will appreciate it and respect you even more.

If we all look at it from everyone's perspective, this way meetings can be more rewarding .

Couples, once again Single Guys on this site are a dime a dozen, but then again so are you when you try and pursue that elusive single woman. Treat us the way you would like that single woman to treat you. Thanks, Think about it…. 

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Let's save this for when we meet! I have lots of great
stories....

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