"I gravitate towards women with a palpable sexiness. But just what, I asked myself, makes a woman so sexy you can feel it emanating from her when she walks in the room? I let my mind wander over images of women throughout my life who have made my breath catch, and my skin tingle, just by being in their presence. Sometimes I remembered how a t-shirt clung to one woman’s shoulders, or how another held my gaze unabashedly over a glass of wine. But mostly I reflected on the intangibles — qualities, values, character traits — a woman must possess so that I want to send plates flying as I crawl across the dinner table and lower myself onto her lap."