Brand new to Portland from LA. Have spent the last year celibate (not on purpose- just wasn't in the mood) after the deaths of both of my parents 3 weeks apart. Coming back into the light ( a few pounds heavier FYI- scale moving back south as we speak) Need to get back in the swing of life! Below is my old profile for your perusal ;) Do you want to know what a strong, independent woman who is proven to be able to do it all really wants? An even stronger man. A man who can make her feel small and feminine. One who can match her wit and strength and strong arm her with his own. One whose credibility is strong enough to ALLOW her to submit. I don't think any woman- much less one like me who is drama-free, FUN, flies helicopters, not too hard on the eyes, has a 135 IQ and loves to fuck, should EVER have to hunt for dick. This is the predicament I find myself in every time I'm horny- which is often- because I can't find a RELIABLE fuck buddy and I'm so so soooooooo sick of it. I find people that are willing and CAPABLE of being totally honest about their sexuality are honest about everything else too, therefore the quality of men here I find is far superior to "regular" dating sites. SO... if you are looking for a one time or 2 time or even 3 or 4 time thing, GO AWAY. I'm done with having to find new dick every 3 months. Having said that... I am NOT a queen or a princess- I'm a grownup sexy woman who adores being appreciated (however...your money means nothing to me) I like a man who is first and foremost a gentleman even when he's being a BEAST. I'm attracted to a sexy face before anything else, so PHOTOS OF JUST YOUR DICK WILL NOT NOT NOT CUT IT.

My Ideal Person Whether we meet depends 50% on your profile (both how you look and what you say) and 50% on how you approach me. If you're a man's man with a big brain, big heart, big sense of humor and big dick we'll be GOLDEN!

You rarely say "no". You're as fun as you are cerebral and you're passionate about everything you do. Especially me!

Looking for a RELIABLE, fun, smart, uninhibited MAN who wants to ADORE his woman. I like a man who is first and foremost a gentleman even when he's being a BEAST. I find men on this site are more intelligent, cooler, drama and stress free than "regular" dating sites. Preferably someone very local to me as I can NOT host. Someone available often, and someone I can be friends with and have fun times in and out of the bedroom! Someone who CAN and LOVES to TALK IN BED! Talk to me!!

I LOVE PDA and getting juicy in public before we take it to the bedroom. KISSING is an absolutely integral part of an outstanding fuck so if you're not into kissing we are not for each other.

My man is SINGLE, BLACK, YES...I am a size queen. Pretty much the bigger, the better and nothing less that 8 inches and THICK! I am attracted to handsome, clean-cut, well dressed, educated, professional, muscular, fit and athletic black men who love to take their time, have fun and conversation. My standards are as high for myself as they are for my choice in men (I give what I get)

You are TALLL TALL TALL. You must love SEXY sex... if you don't know what that means you're not for me...

YES, I will make you a sandwich!

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What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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