**Update** After being on here for some time now we've been suprised to learn how many couples who portray themselves as having a straight male and bi/bi-curious lady are in reality both bi or curious. Why not just be up front about it and say so in your profile? You are what you are, right? What is even more humorous is how when we see a profile with a testamonial one of the couples is vehemtly adamant about not wanting to be anywhere a bi male, yet the testamonial or other profile is from someone who has written us saying that they are both bi, even thought their profile says he is straight. We always thought the Lifestyle was based on honesty and communication. Apparently not. Just giving everyone something to think about the next time the inbox has a new present in it. Now, back to your regularly scheduled profile.................. We are a mid 40's couple of 26 years who enjoy a wonderful life together. We are secure in our relationship and aren't looking to play outside of our marriage...meaning that we will always meet and play as a couple, never ever alone. We are not new to this lifestyle but we are far from seasoned veterans who live for the next 'party'. We are normal, good looking (well, she is anyway!), well groomed, DDF and extremely discrete about this part of our life. We hesitate to use the term upscale, because while we enjoy some of the nicer things life has to offer, we are down to earth, laid back and enjoy being in the company of close friends. We are seeking other similar to ourselves socially and sexually. We are both fully bi and while we're not ashamed of our sexuality, we do recognize the stigma that not only swinging, but male bisexuality has in society, especially locally! We would prefer to meet others who are as open minded as we are. They would have no problem interacting with anyone while in the heat of the moment and could handle everything in a passionate and drama free manner. We can and sometimes do play with couples where one or both are straight and will respect others limits...and we would expect ours to be respected as well. To all the single males out there: No thanks. We aren't the least bit interested. To all the solo ladies out there: Yes, we are interested. You comfort level is always paramount and respected. His participation, if any, with you is always your decision.