Not looking for a one night stand. Prefer something ongoing and with a little substance. I am a BBW, so if that isn't your thing, kindly move on to the next profile. No need to stop by to tell me I'm fat, I know it and I'm comfortable in my own skin. Not looking for your approval or love...got enough of my own. ;) I know that this site is based on a lot of sexual premise, however, please understand that just because I like sex, does not necessarily mean that I like it with YOU. Don't assume that everyone is here to hook up with you. If you see something you like, please approach me politely and with good manners. If you approach with rude, presumptuous, macho remarks, you'll just be blocked/deleted/toyed with.

My Ideal Person Please be articulate and fun...you know, good sense of humour and able to carry on a decent educated conversation. Kindness and good manners go a long way.

I have a preference for taller men (I'm 5'10"), younger than myself and well mannered. A goatee or nicely trimmed facial hair is ok, clean shaven or 5 o'clock shadow is sexy as hell. But if you look like one of the guys from Duck Dynasty or your bush is so thick I can't tell what might be living in there, please move on. Same goes for "down there".

Well endowed is nice, but good with your hands will work too. If you're blessed with both, you're a dream.

Please be local. I realize not much goes on in my small city. There are probably not many from here on this site. However, if you're not under an hour away, I'm not likely going to make the effort. I hate the roads...especially in the winter.

Be willing to practice safe sex. If you're not, please move along to the next profile.

I am Dominant/poly/kinky/pansexual and a group leader in the kink/fetish community in my local area. If you are not open minded about that, you may as well move on to the next profile because that is not changing.

I find unsolicited dick pics terribly offensive. If I want to see your cock I will ask you to send me a pic. If you are rude enough to send me one without my approval first, expect an equally rude response. As for your profile, that's your profile, so far be it from me to tell you what pics to post. However, know that I am far more likely to be attracted to a profile with face pics and wearing a sharp suit or a sexy tshirt and faded jeans. Even more, I like to see something witty, honest or funny written in your profile. I am a sapio-sexual.

Please, if you don't have a profile pic that clearly shows your face, send one in your initial email. Do NOT send a dick pic.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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