LilaValentine 41 / F
"Naughty subbie girl...waiting to be controlled"
Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
 
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LilaValentine 41/F
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Nothing like a man who takes control :)
Introduction
I have a Sir, his name is Kinkyguy78. We have met in real life, numerous times, every time has been wonderful, and he makes me completely happy. Yes, I may flirt and enjoy fun, friendly conversation, but I am not looking for anyone, nor will you be able to "convert" me or convince me that there are better options out there. It's simply not going to happen. D/s is a delicate balance and I am happy to have found someone who lets me be who I am and knows when I need and want him to take control.

My Ideal Person I already have them - both of them.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Serving a master, someone who takes complete control of
me from the moment I walk in the door, makes me strip &
wear a collar and leash, gives me rules & commands and
enforces them when I misbehave, but rewards me when I am
good. someone who knows how to talk dirty to me constantly
to keep me on edge and willing to be a good girl (most of the
time)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 41 / female
  • Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: August 7, 1975
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Bra Size: 40 / 90 D
Speaks: English, CAT
Hair Color: Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Green
Glasses or Contacts: None
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