We're all here for the same reas....looking for that something that we are missing, whether it's because we are not getting what we want now or because we like to have a taste of something new and erotic....I'm just a basic member so I can't reply to messages, emails and all the rest of the good stuff, but I'm usually on IM (which doesn't work all the time) so page me there if you would like to chat ;) and hopefully it's working so we can chat