In_love_and_open 54 / 51 / C
"Looking for couples for full swap. He plays with ladies & couples :)"
Kanata, Ontario, Canada
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Member Since: January 18, 2014

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In_love_and_open 54/C
Kanata, Ontario , Canada
Spring soon :)
We have been together over 25 years and are committed to each other. We are both professionals in different fields. We enjoy wine and whisky in moderation, theatre, live music, pool, a good laugh, massages, dancing and good company with whom to share it all.

He is fit, bordering on athletic and practices martial arts. She is very nicely proportioned. We are both shaved.

We mostly play as a couple with couples. He may play with ladies or a couple on his own, especially when travelling. Safe sex is a must. We are disease free and tested. We enjoy same room and full swap. She is energetic, exciting and multi-orgasmic. He is considerate with lots of stamina.

Since deciding to swing we have really jumped into it and wish to thank the many people whom we have met and played with. There really is a difference between chocolate and vanilla people. We'll put up a meme about that.

We reply to all messages containing complete sentences, though it may take a few days when things are busy. We're not into extensive chat that leads nowhere, but happy to build rapport by message, email or IM. That can include being pen pals with people somewhere we want to visit. If we all agree we are interested in each other, let's meet over coffee or drinks when our schedules allow, then follow up with something more intimate.

We will also get back to you if you flirt with us or hotlist us ... unless you're a single male.

Please do message us before sending a friend request. That's kind of important. We have face pics on the site for friends.

What we are not into:
- men messaging, hotlisting or flirting. Sorry guys, we are not looking for that. Please do not. If we want you, we will find you.
- camming
- couples who are into soft swap only
- couples who require the lady to be fully bi

Couples who are new to the lifestyle are welcome to contact us. We remember how tense we felt, and how much a more experienced couple helped us. It's fun to pay it forward. It's amazing how much you can learn in an hour over a drink.

My Ideal Person You should be comfortable in your own skin. We are looking for happy long-term couples, and we are looking for more than sex over time if that works out.

We are attracted to people who make an effort to be attractive. It is sexy when you put work into your bodies and your appearance, and we really like that. We don't need gym rats (we are not), but we want you to have a little pride in yourselves. There are so many different kinds of sexy!

We prefer non-smokers (or at most very light smokers). Hygiene is important.

If you can host that is a real benefit. We have teens at home. We also enjoy B&B, or meet us at a party. Hotels work too. Bonus points if you have a hot tub.

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Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Her - being part of a harem.

Him - meeting a friend for sex. She has ben wa balls in her
pussy and wants to keep them in ...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage, Groups and orgies

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Halle Berry. Great topless moment in Swordfish.

Jamie Lee Curtis. Damn she's got some great scenes
-true Lies, A Fish Called Wanda, Trading Places.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 54/51 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Kanata, Ontario, Canada
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-curious
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what we have
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: July 13, 1962 July 31, 1965
Travels to: Dunoon, Argyllshire, United Kingdom
Relocate?: No No
Height: 182-185 cm 162-165 cm
Body Type: Athletic Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Education: BA/BS (4 years college) Master's degree
Occupation: Professional Musician
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Average N/A
Circumcised: No N/A
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 Above DD / E
Hair Color: Brown Red/Auburn
Hair Length: Short Medium
Eye Color: Blue Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses Glasses