WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this. UPDATE...just wanted to mention that in light of so many responses please don't send a nasty email if I don't respond and also did I mention the importance of intelligence, how it's attractive and all...so please know that a correctly spelled and well-written email is more likely to get a response. also not looking to be with someone overweight...oh, and if you email or show interest in any other way...you are unlikely to get a response without a photo...sorry, but there are just too many to respond to without requesting that. thanks! I'm a 41 y/o woman with an athletic body and have been told by many i'm attractive. i am in my sexual prime . I have recently separated. I think i would be rather shy and apprehensive my first time with a man so I might need someone who is understanding about that. and also someone who is understanding. I have a pretty nice "rack" with very sensitive nipples which i love to have kissed and licked. I am shaved and get wet with even just a great kiss or the anticipation of sex. This is a huge step for me in my life and it is paramount that whomever i am with first is respectful, patient, kind and sensitive...as well as thoughtful, understanding...and did i mention "patient"? i might be looking for a regular thing if i enjoy it. it will definitely involve me easing into the situation before it is a full on romp. i hope to find a good kisser who enjoys doing that a lot and someone who likes a lot of touching and caressing and sensual foreplay. I wouldn't be opposed to and might even enjoy hanging out and spending time getting to know someone over drinks or dinner or an in-home movie night or two but discretion is a MUST! I am not sharing any of this with my friends as they may not understand...so i would like to keep it a secret. What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A bed, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage Have you ever had cybersex?: I have cybersex quite often.

Ma personne idéale : I guess my ideal guy would be fit and very clean. you don't have to be huge but if i'm gonna do this I do wanna feel something! lol I don't mind a hairy chest and stomach but please no excessive back hair. and facial hair is fine to if it's trim and not grizzly adams.

Being an articulate and intelligent charmer will definitely score you some points. I am hoping to get to know someone through conversation first, during and after. so please be able to hold an intelligent and perhaps witty conversation!

I like a man who is fit and clean but he doesn't have to have a rock hard bod. but he should be somewhat caring and intelligent with a great sense of humor.

I am looking for someone who can be patient and gentle at first but over time can be passionate and really give it to me GOOD and go for hours...someone who can tell me when it feels good and talk during sex.

I am not sure I really want a relationship with a man but I am not opposed to a sexual affair if it is mutually agreed on. i also will only have sex with protection.

Parlez de l'un de vos fantasmes préférés. Lâchez-vous !:
I have several actually...i'll give you a few... <br><br>
<br><br>
Iam not sure i would ever be comfortable with it but I have
often fantasized about being with two great looking men...maybe
one is my regular guy and he and i are with one of his friends
or a complete stranger...my guy is doing me from behind
while i suck the stranger or i'm sucking my guy...looking
into his eyes and watching him get turned on by the stranger
taking me from behind. have also thought about being with
two guys where...my guy is inside me and the other guy is inside him...at the
same time...or the other way round. or my guy is eating my
pussy while the other guy is sucking his cock. not sure if
i would actually do any of those but they are a huge turn on to think about! <br><br>
<br><br>
i have also fantasized about role play... me and a gynocologist...i'm
frigid and he's inspecting the goods to see what's the problem...he fingers me
and starts licking my clit and while i'm in the stirrups
he slides his cock in to "exam" me and check my
response. <br><br>
<br><br>
there are many other role play scenarios i'll share
later... <br><br>
<br><br>
i guess my most realistic fantasy is to meet a guy in a hotel
room...have him kiss me and undress me...give me great
teasing oral...tease me with his cock...slide into me
gently and slowly with me on my back...gently going deeper
and faster...pulling out and 69ing...then getting me
on my knees and going in gently from behind...deliberate
strokes in and out...then pulling me up my back against
his chest while he plays with my nipple and rubs my clit and
kisses me deeply...then he lays down and i ease myself slowly
down on his cock and rocking back and forth and grinding
around and around and squeezing him from inside...while
he plays with my tits and i rub my clit and we kiss passionately.
yep... that's about it...:)

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Le sexe anal

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, Attraction physique, Appétit sexuel

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
Pas question, pas de virtuel que du réel pour moi.

Voir plus de réponse de HastingsOHGirl