I am 58, retired, and have been divorced for five years. I live in Medina County with two dogs and a cat. I am a nature/outdoor lover but I am also a bit materialistic. Well, okay, I'm more than a bit materialistic... "He who dies with the most toys wins" has always been a favorite phrase of mine as has "I may hve to grow old but I can always be immature!" I am not, however, entirely superficial... I am also very spiritual... that is part of my dual Gemini nature as is the fact that I tend to form deeply emotional attachments rather quickly but make committments slowly. If all of this seems confusing and contradictory to you... then best pass me by. My relationships tend to be of varying lengths, from 29 years to one night but in any case I am always a one-woman-at-a-time kinda guy. If I get hooked on you... how long it lasts is pretty much your decision.

My Ideal Person I enjoy many different kinds of women... women of all race, ages, and faiths but I am not a "womanizer." Your eyes will interest me most seriously at first. Although I might admire one or more parts of your anatomy, I will be powerless to express my interest unless your eyes invite and challenge me to know your soul. In point of fact, you may be rather plain or average... it matters not. If you catch me with your eyes, I am yours for at least a while until I get to know more about you. Don't be a druggie, an alcoholic, a radical kink, or a bisexual wanna-be... I just can't handle that. Agressive women are interesting but dominant or controlling women send me screaming in the opposite direction! Just be fun and above all else be yourself. If you can appreciate my sense of humor, that is a plus. If you would rather be a player and cannot be trusted... I will be only a memory before you can blink your baby-blues!