Looking for real people who want to do real things together. Tired of the games and lies? So am I. Want someone real for doing real things together. Committed relationship is available ... bit only to a very, very special person over time. ABOUT ME: A cross between Telly Sevalas, Van Diesel, Jean Luke Picard (lol) and Cyrano de Bergerac (roflmao)…Part Hells Angel (when in the Motorcycle) and part Daddy Warbucks (in my suit and tie). I usually have a Goatee and usually shave my head. Can’t figure out if I am Metro or Uber. Either way I have a sense of humor ( yea I really do…) and enjoy teasing and banter both verbally and physically. Romantic, Well Educated (all Ivy) (intelligence not verified…lol) and pragmatic as well as realistic (but peppered with a strong desire for optimism)…. Have a huge “freak” in me needing regular outlet.. Due to personal matters (I am NOT married or attached) I have to settle for Friends with “benefits” or even good friends… If I am your FRIEND…. regardless of benefits or not I am extremely loyal (not quite like…lol) I love to dance and am anxious to learn Latin style dances (Tango, Salsa etc.) Love to travel (more than 60 countries so far) and enjoy cultural events and local cuisine (foods of various countries). 6 foot, 200 pounds... 48-inch chest, and 36-inch waist, a Tattoo for you to find… looking for another soon. Love my tan… shaved in all the right places (In case you wanted to know). Have all my teeth (I think…lol) Love outdoors and warm sun and soft sand beaches, occasional sporting events but… it has to be a good match up. I am well versed in many world topics be it religion, politics, economics etc. So even if your not formally educated it is OK as long as you have the interest. I enjoy snuggling in front of a TV or Fireplace, or peacefully being in the same room listening to music, reading or whatever. Sometimes I want to go for a drive and explore or ride a motorcycle for that “feeling” of exhilaration and wildness… but I do not like bikers who weave between cars and trucks…. Too dangerous…. (Have you ever ridden a bike along country roads and listened to Vivaldi… I do sometimes… Other times it could be any Techno or rhythmic beat that adds to the blood flow) BAD POINTS: I can sometimes get into intellectual esoteric discussions. I am too eclectic (too many interests (no not ADD/ADHD)) I have a personal commitment that MUST come first for a while, Have some drama but try to keep it to myself as much as possible… hard because I need to be honest about who I am and where I am in my life… and yet want to put those issues in the box where they belong and rarely go into detail on them. So like the Armed Services… If you don’t ask about them… I won’t tell about them…(We all have baggage (IF we have had a life),I have mine, lets keep the baggage in the trunk even though we both know it is there),I have written enough for people to read on AFF that you can find out for yourself if you need that info..I am too easy (proof is I am divorced 2 times…lol) I am frequently accused of being over sexed. SEE NOBODY IS PERFECT (lol) !! MOST EROTIC ADVENTURE WAS: The first time at a swing club, where my partner and I originally wanted to be exhibitionists and voyeuristic at the same time. Then accepted another couples request to join us… First time to participate in a DP and… WOW… 1 on 1 or MFM or FMF are fine by me! NO PAIN !!!

My Ideal Person Adventurous, willing to try new and exciting things in ALL walk of life.

IDEAL PERSON: BASICALLY FOR THE 3 WOMAN OUT THERE THAT THIS FITS...LOL

IDEAL (remember this is ideal not exclusive --- (it probably describes about 3 or 4 women in the world…lol)) Besides being a lady with class (subjective opinion I know) you are a sexual vixen. You are erotic and hopefully exotic… small breasted women preferred (not over C unless your size is 34 or less) ..as I like to enjoy them completely... Your skin tone is Tan to Ebony.. Some color to you skin is preferred, I want to give you an oil massage in candlelight or in front of the fireplace and see the glistening of your skin. Have a definite affinity towards Tan to Ebony women... Black, Latino, Asian and Indian (east or west)...Your Oral interest is giving and receiving. You enjoy Anal or at least open to it… Someone who wants to explore her sexuality and willing to at least discuss the infinite possibilities that exist. You appreciate and enjoy the Sensual aspects of sex. You like to try different foods, travel the world, and try new things on a regular basis… you are intelligent even if not educated… you can discuss world events and yet know when quiet times are important, you will like passion and sensual love making and yet have that time when you just want to be wild and (well you know…lol) Last and not least is that you understand and can appreciate why I have to be Friends with or without benefits!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
ASK ME!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, SWING, DO ME CHAIR

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
UMMMMM!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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