[B][SIZE 4][COLOR indigo]Never been on this site before. The idea always seemed a little skeezy to me. Lately though, dating is just plain exhausting. Im not looking for a one night stand. I'm looking for a friend with benefits near me who I'm attracted to who will stick around for a while as I;m not looking to add a ton of guys to my numbers. Not to mention, that's the type of exercise I could do all day an[/B]d never [/SIZE]get sick of it[/COLOR].

My Ideal Person What I'm looking for:

Clean: If you currently have any STD's I'm not looking to take that risk for someone I'm not in love with

Monogamous: I'm cool with no strings attached, but if you decide you would like to sleep with someone else, then let me know and we will stop seeing each other. I'm not looking to get what 10 other girls are carrying. You're free to date people but if you decide to sleep with them give me the heads up so we can sever what we've got going on. I will do you the same courtesy.

Girls like to cuddle: Cuddling is part of sex to me. Let's cuddle and finish the movie we watched almost none of

I'm not overly kinky: You know what this means. No back door action and no crazy kama sutra moves. I like soft biting, choking (must be done right)and hair pulling. I DO NOT like to be spanked. This is pretty much the extent of my bondage.

Safety First: I don't care if it feels better, if he's not wearing a hat, he's not getting in.

Girls will be girls: I will likely want some measure of darkness until I become more comfortable with you.

No wet mops: If I can't stand your personality enough to hang out with you, I can't choke my gag reflex enough to do anything physical.

Mutual attraction:

This does not mean I am superficial or want a model or bodybuilder. Far from it. I usually prefer a little around the middle. I'm no spring chicken myself but I'm still beautiful. I have to be at least a little bit attracted to you so here are my dealbreakers.....bad teeth(this includes smokers...no smokers breath), if you are shorter than I am(5'9"), if you are bald with a ton of beard hair. I prefer the opposite(hair on the head, as little on the chin) and no moustaches(I cant a grip on the damn things!) and please be somewhat in my age range. (if you are more than 10 years different in age keep walking and if you are bad at math that means younger than nineteen or older than 39) If you stink (I'm highly attracted to smell but don't bathe in the cheap nasty crap.) and unfortunately since this is based purely on a friend with benefits situation I have to say this....nothing shorter than 6 inches. I prefer 6.5-7.5 but 8 would probably be my max threshold.

Also, to avoid any confusion, no Gemma is not my real name but please call me by it when we chat

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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