DessertCactus 40 / M
"Sweet and cream filled"
Aiken, South Carolina, United States
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DessertCactus 40/M
Aiken, South Carolina
I try to be a gentleman during the day, but that's not why I am here. I tend to be shy and reserved, but with the right person I open up. I want to start by exchanging messages, and if that clicks go further.

I tend to be naturally dominant. But I am not set, it just depends on who I am with. I am not looking for a BDSM relationship, but if that comes out hey, I am not opposed to it. I like to have fun....sexually.

I am looking for a mature lady. I enjoy roleplays and would like to explore that side more. Are you that kind?

My Ideal Person Like I was saying earlier, I would love to find a person who can be fun, joke around, talk...and we can flirt and get the mind going.

I love a woman who is a total lady in every way...but she knows when to sneak in those dirty moments to get me fired up. I would love to find someone who would send me a dirty message in the middle of the day just because she was thinking of me and feeling hot....or just because she enjoys distracting me...or just because...just because!! No reason necessary.

Said all that I have to be discrete. My job is rather public, and I don't want someone to see me who may know me outside of here in a different look. I hope you understand, and if you don't ask me. I will explain.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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  • 40 / male
  • Aiken, South Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: February 4, 1976
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Speaks: English
Hair Length: Shaved
Eye Color: Brown