I'd like to think of myself as being balanced, empathic and a viewer of 'the big picture'. I am generally reserved but good company around people I like and respect. Time-wasters and nasty people get no truck from me - but I always try to see the best in people (for a while, at least). I have been married for a long while, and whilst happy in most regards, there is a gaping hole - sex and sensuality. So I'm on this site looking for experiences that will block that gaping hole for a time. This is hardly a unique situation, I know.
When I log on to ths site I usually head for the caht rooms and you will find me there - trying to entertain the people I know allowing myself to be a a little naughty.
I am discreet and am unwilling to divulge too much information in here - but I'm happy to open up to people I know
My Ideal Person Married or attached probably....looking for the same experiences as me. I like women who like to dress well and have an exhibitionist streak in them. I am aroused by watching women take their clothes off confidently and show themselves knowing that this will arouse me. You will be very discreet and understand our limits.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to mention.....but will include Dylan
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies"
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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|Looking For: Women|
|Birthdate:||May 3, 1961|
|Height:||5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm|
|Body Type:||A little extra padding|
|Smoking:||I'm a non-smoker|
|Drinking:||I'm a light/social drinker|
|Drugs:||I don't use drugs|
|Have Children:||Yes. We sometimes live together.|
|Glasses or Contacts:||Glasses|