Everyone wants an adventure, nobody wants a nightmare. Sadly, most people end up playing it safe, avoiding the one, missing out on the other. That's way too easy to do, but in the end, is that really living?
Sex is one of those things, alluring, exciting, intoxicating and glorious when it's good. It's that thing we all hunger for, that moment of the first kiss, the first feel, a soft breast cupped in my palm, a hard cock in your hand. It is a primal, even a primordial, drive. We all want it. And we don't just want it, we want it to be spectacular, earthshaking, we want it white hot intense. We want that moment of passion, of feverish intensity to say we're alive, to know that wherever else we go, whatever we do, there was that moment when we burned white hot, when we were sexy as hell, when we had someone who was lightning in a condom.
But the thing is, it's a little scary, isn't it? There's so much risk and fear and insecurity to dissuade us, to send us skulking back to a bland existence.
I say embrace life, take a chance, eat the peach, take the risk... because in the end, its the only path to what we truly want. We don't have to be reckless or foolish, but the worst thing to do with fears is to be ruled by them.
Me? I'm satisfaction guaranteed. In fact, if you're not totally satisfied, well I promise double your orgasms back. You don't get a guarantee like that at Wal-Mart.
I'm the fun adventure, baggage free, pure pleasure. Your comfort zone, your sense of safety and ease is important to me, because that's when you feel secure enough to be utterly wanton.
I'm sane and sensible, self employed and stable. I'm brilliant and articulate and have a sense of humour. Fun in and out of bed. I'm sensuous, creative, imaginative and relentless.
I have the pounding rhythm of a jackhammer, the endurance of a plowhorse, the hands of a musician, and the ability to write differential equations with the tip of my tongue on your clit. I love toys, everything from massage oils and feathers and things that you can dial up to eleven, and even better, I'm very very good with them. I'm dominant, but not really a jerk about it, the sound I want to hear is 'ooh' not 'ouch!'
What I am, apart from great sex, is good hearted. Caring and thoughtful, not about treating people like meat, not selfish. I honestly enjoy not just the sex, but the person, and if I've been naked with you, well, there'll always be a smile and a hug and a soft spot in my heart.
I like my life, and I don't want to screw it up. By the same token, I have no intention of screwing up yours, either. I'm just in it for the fun, if you need more, sorry. This isn't the place for Prince Charming, I'm here to be a bad boy, the kind you don't take home to mother.
My Ideal Person I want a woman who needs an adventure. Perhaps just a fling, an escape from a life that's getting too ordinary and dull. Perhaps a wild child looking for lightning in a condom. Or a couple, who are looking for a walk on the wild side.
I'm looking for women who want to get in touch with their inner slut. I want good girls who want to be bad, and I'm into bad girls who want the best. I'm looking for someone who's a little bit restless, who wants a little bit more.
We all live ordinary lives of day to day existence, and we all long for those moments of excitement, those spaces in our existence where suddenly, you aren't ordinary, where its not just the same old, but suddenly, it's all fresh and new and exciting.
What I want is to make your skin tingle and your heart beat a little faster, to make you wet with anticipation, fluttering with possibility and potential.
So take a chance.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Actually, I've done most of those locations.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, anything that produces desire and gives pleasure, whatever most excites my partner.
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, It's all about the chemistry. Desire and desirability
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I prefer real people.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.
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