I'm gay in an open marriage and can host anytime inside or out on my hobby farm. The love-of-my-life died 8 years ago after 27 fabulous years. My s called him Dad II. I married a woman 2 years later believing I wouldn't find a decent man for a LTR in this rural area. Today the opportunities are greater since DSL became available to me. My wife and I have an open relationship for my emotional stability because I need intimacy with men.

My Ideal Person I'm gay and need sex with men. I don't consider myself kinky; however, I like best are in order of priority: nice cock and balls, oral, anal, kissing, 5 o'clock shadow, lots of skin to skin contact, smooth, small. The only taboos I have in the bedroom or outside are marks and dirty butts. The best place to have sex is my place/his place. I like long sessions.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Glen Miller, some of Michael Jackson, Cher

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes, Jimmy Dean, his looks and tight jeans (I saw him in "Rebel
Without a Cause" when I was 12 or 13 and I almost came
in my pants and I sure did not understand what was happening
to me.)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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