I'm a single professional widower checking out the site. No specific agenda here. I'm fairly low key, sane and healthy. I guess my ultimate goal would be to establish an ongoing relationship with another man, but am not opposed to getting together occasionally with like minded individuals for some fun. I only play safe and am HIV neg and std free. Condoms only. I have a fairly active lifestyle, although I'm spending more time in the office these days than I would like. I get turned on by take charge men who tend to be more dominant, although that is a side of me I have not had enough time to explore and would like too.