Inquisitive, discreet,not butt-ugly, enjoys closeness, likes to spend time at the lake cabin just relaxing, can converse about numerous subjects, enjoys flirting and sharing and looks for the same in his partner. Somehow the following modification never made it to my profile: I am attached and intend to stay that way. I seek a discrete, NSA, FWB relationship with someone nearby who is looking for the same.

My Ideal Person I seek a woman who enjoys getting away from distractions, who enjoys their sexuality, who likes touching, and being touched, yet is independent, responsible, and self-reliant, a woman who looks for the same in a man, but one who doesn't have to "own" them to feel comfortable. Often women's profiles express the sentiment that although they are here out of curiosity and having fun they wouldn't be adverse to a discrete LTR of afternoon delights because they are not getting attention at home. That summarizes my situation also. One-nighters aren't very satisfying when one seeks an enjoyable, comfortable, caring, ongoing relationship. Also since I am , age-wise, OLD Man,,,,(Hah) it appears very few women even return the courtesy of a reply,,,,,oh well

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My partner is wanting attention, wanting me, wanting us.
She is aggressive and responsive. Simple fantasy. (Where,
when , how is to be arranged and then experienced). As you
can tell, I think sitting in the stands isnt nearly as fun
and enjoyable and thrilling as being on the court and participating.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Fisting, again, ladies choice, ditto

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Celebrities are over-rated and too narcissic for my tastes.
Just be real, enjoy who you are, enjoy being together.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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