I'm very patient and like to take a long time with someone. The time together is a form of foreplay and sex to me. Do you have the time? I'm safe and sincere to a fault, a little on the quiet side, but once I get comfortable, I really open up. I've always been the "good friend" who wishes it could be more. I have a kindly if teasing sense of humor. I like to make people laugh even at my own expense. Physically, I'm padded more than I'd like, but I have potential. I'm hairy chested, top-shiny and need some cardio. (any ideas?) I'm a very sincere person, a little old-fashioned in courtesy and compliments. I give respect, courtesy, consideration, and honesty and I assume the same unless proven otherwise. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. I don't mind a girl that chatters. I think it's cute. When I'm wrong, I admit it. When I'm right, I'm gracious. I always try to see more than one side of an issue and sometimes advocate a position I don't agree with just so it's considered. (wierd, huh?) Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... anything from friends, friends with benefits or serious. I won't complain. I Like the descriptive words: sensual, sexy, lithe, willowy, lovely, slippery, elegant, and slinky. I prefer chamisols versus corsets, natural skin versus heavy makeup, Silk versus leather, and open toe strappy versus platform pumps. I'm into making the romantic gestures from the little things to the silly. I look forward to hearing from you soon. I hope to meet someone who clicks and see how it works out.

My Ideal Person Finding an open, long-term friend is always welcome. I'm not really looking for a one-time booty call.
That said, if the followig matches, things could grow substantialy intimate:
I like very assertive women. I prefer women who like to be appreciated both physically and emotionally and are uninhibited and somewhat aggressive sexually. I'll skip the Superbowl for a girl in heels. Blatant honesty is best. I'll see through the games. I'm totally straight, and very attracted to bi-sexual women. My perfect woman/women will like women as much as I do and know that it never diminishes her/them in my eyes. I'm perfectly capable of a 1-to-1 relationship with mutual fantasies. I'm brand new to this method of meeting people and I'm happy to go at whatever pace seems appropriate. Prefer slender and/or petite but curvy and proportional is also nice. Women who LOVE to wear lingerie, stockings, and heels are ALWAYS given full attention and appreciation for the effect. It's a little cliche' but if you're into it, I'm yours. Are you a little exibitionist? I'd love to pay attention to you. Offer the sensual, and get the rest. Just friends is an option or I'm good for romance and even long-term.

Married women ok for friends, but never more. I've been on the other side of that fence, and I will never participate in doing that to anyone else.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Variations on a theme. I am completely turned on by a woman
(or women) in stockings (or thigh-highs, accessible pantyhose,
bodystockings) and sexy open toed heels with ankle straps
(too specific?) Don't care about platforms but 4-6"
heel is best. A long time ago, I was given a taste of my fantasy
for my birthday. My then wife took me out for a movie followed
by dinner. She wore a long skirt and boots so I couldn't
see her legs. (ok they were boots, but it worked that night)
While at the movie, she put my hand under her skirt so I could
feel that she was wearing what I later found to be black stockings
over red fishnets. We teased each other during the movie,
and then went to dinner. It was really heating me up thinking
about what was to come. After we got home, we had an amazing
time without ever taking those stockings off. The only
thing better would have been if she woke me up for more in
the morning them still on.

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