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I guess the first thing is to give a brief description. First I can honestly say I am just a pretty typical average male. I am single. Not attached, not seeing anyone, not secretly married and hiding from a wife. I really am amazed at the number of people on here that do that. But, I will not go any further into that. When I say I am average, I mean it. Not a six-pack for a gut, not a keg either. I can see my toes when I look down and I dont wear pant sizes that are in the 40's. I am bald and clean shaven. I do not have a lot of body hair. I have two tattoos. Are more in my future, maybe. I have my left ear pierced twice and that is all the piercings I will get. I am 5'8", okay since I have aged it might be 5'7 3/4". I havent measured myself lately. About 185-190 pounds.
I have interest that excite me. I have experience in some BDSM, Master/slave/submissive, Daddy/girl, etc. I am open, I expect you to be. However, it does not drive my life nor am I only motivated by it. If that is not your thing, I will respect that. If it is your thing, well maybe we can discuss and experiment.
So what is it I seek. I will not mis-lead anyone.
Let me be upfront, I am seeking an LTR with a Lady. I am soon becoming an empty nester with the kid going to college. So I have done my time. My house wont support a ready made family. So my preference is a lady with grown adult children or no more than 1 child.
The ultimate I am looking for is a partner for life. Someone to grow with and develop a very solid relationship. I have experienced the possibility of a shorten life, so I would like to share my remaining days with someone. However, if it is not meant to be, then so be it. I will continue to enjoy life and make friends. Some will involve sex, some will not. Friendship is never a bad thing.
How come when a man sets standards for how a lady looks he is shallow but when a woman does the same thing she is just picky. Another double standard in life. I do not like double standards. I know what I like, want and need. If you don't meet my expectations (or if I dont meet yours) then so be it. It is life, move on, deal with it.
I have been accused of being too slow, but that is okay. I am a patient man and will not accept anything less than my expectations. I also have been accused of "fear of commitment". To that I say, hockey pucks. We are all adults, you dont like what I say, move on.
I am a professional. I have a life outside of the this. The lady I seek must understand that and grasp it as well. That is all I will say about my private life. Once I gain a bit of trust, I may open up a little more about my personal life.
For the record, I am divorced and not involved with anyone currently. I repeated myself, I have papers to prove it.
I cannot re-locate, this is non-negotiable for the time being. But in time, all things can change.
If you have read this far, I am impressed. I am sure I have turned away many by now. So be it. I am Me and I am real. This is just the way it is. You either accept me or you don't. You are entitled to that.
To all the girls that think old-fashioned and believe the man should make the first contact. I am not a mind reader. If you have an interest, say so. I will at least have the balls to say, hey thanks but no thanks, not interested. (unless thsi site doesnt let me respond back for some reason.
Anything else, you will just have to ask.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds
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|Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women)|
|Birthdate:||January 1, 1962|
|Height:||5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm|
|Smoking:||I'm a light/social smoker|
|Drinking:||I'm a light/social drinker|
|Drugs:||I don't use drugs|
|Have Children:||Yes. We live together.|