Time for update: Been on AdultFriendFinder since Jan 2015. Met several men...slept with very select few...lesser play with a few others. Nearly all was done with husband present and most nudity will remain as such (no separate play/hall passes). He loves to watch...sometimes joins in straight mfm play. But she prefers an ongoing trusted partner (or two or three) instead of one night stands. She doesn't fuck on first date, but loves to make out and is an extremely passionate and sensual woman. Neither of us is bi. We have a strong marriage (over 21 years and going) and a busy, active family (as well as spend fair amount of time still just fucking each other). But when the stars align...we really enjoy some sexy fun adventures. Condoms are required and not a fan of anal, but when all three are present and we've gotten to know each other a bit and the chemistry is right....watch out!
My Ideal Person
In men: Under 45 (45-55 considered if very fit and sexy), single, white, straight (not bi), somewhat slender, fit, active, educated, employed, and cool with being watched or joined (mfm - no m/m). Prefer a pg rated picture over a cock shot (shirtless is great, but clothed is fine). I want someone that is willing to take the time to get to know us a bit and see if there is any chemistry. I'm not looking to add volumes to my sexual history and have little interest in one night stands or super casual hookups. I think what is between the ears is at least (if not more) important than what's between the legs and you should feel similarly. Also not interested in being with a married man in a closed marriage. V-safe is a bonus. Above all, if you say you are going to meet - do it or at the very least communicate what is going on.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage, Exploring w/ hands and mouth, KISSING!!
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Connection & communication
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.