BlondeWifeMom37 40 / F
"Extremely sexual and bored at home"
Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota, United States
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BlondeWifeMom37 40/F
Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota
Every rose has its thorn
***Update 5/1/15- I have been around long enough to know what it is I want and who is out here playing games. If you want a NSA, ONS. I am not the woman for you. If you are man enough to handle being in a situation with a woman that you consider a "lover", then step to the front of the line. I want ONE man who I have great chemistry with. This is about having fun, flirting, giving to the other what we are missing. This concept of a collective group of FWB's is NOT my idea of someone making me feel special. ***

Just the typical all American next door wife and mom. The perfect good girl all of my life. I married my college sweetheart before I was out of school. But after about 15 years the sex just died and become cold. No passion, desire or adventure. My reality is I married my best friend, my buddy. NOT my lover. It took me having a passionate intense lover to learn that you either have it or not. It is not something that develops over time.
He would rather watch TV over touching me. His idea of "Sex" has become me giving him a blow job. If it does include me, (actual intercourse) it’s all of two minutes and I am the one pleasing him. Fun is golf all afternoon vs spending it naked with me. I have spent my life being the good friend, perfect wife, best mom, successful business woman, weaving my world into a spectacular visual that in the end is nothing more than transparent. It lacked the depth that I needed personally from having kept the real me locked away for so many years. Now its time for me to enjoy myself and take care of me. If you feel that's selfish, then you don't understand. This DOES NOT mean that I am desperate or going to settle in the least. It is just a self proclamation... I have let go and stepped out of my box. I chose to LIVE! In doing so I've granted myself permission to take control over my own sexual freedom and destiny.

Check out my blog to learn more about me, my thoughts, secrets, experiences and desires. Including all the intricate and uninhibited opinions, fantasies and ramblings that fill this pretty blonde head.

My Ideal Person UPDATE** 6/20/14

I have to say, WOW. I joined AdultFriendFinder to see if there were any men out here, possibly in a similar situation to mine, or at least respectful enough to be 100% discrete and trustworthy. I am utterly overwhelmed with the reality of exactly how many men (& couples) are truly out here and willing to assist me in my exploration. These past few months have shown me that I am in excellent company. Foremost, I require that my partner/partners be quality, and like all women, I have expectations, and I know who I am looking for.

About me: I am an educated, well traveled, successful, sophisticated, intelligent, socially talented, athletic, TALL, business woman. Matched with a very strong, but sweet personality. I have a wicked sense of humor, love to laugh, extremely playful and keep stored away in my pretty little head a very, very naughty mind. My sexuality although prevalent, was virtually untapped when I joined AdultFriendFinder. I've had a chance to experience some very sensual and erotic fun/pleasures. Along with learning what things are my "kinks". Aside from being a very attractive woman, I am also meticulously clean, in all aspects. I may be blonde, but I have a brain and your first mistake ever with me is to assume I haven't a clue how to use it.

MEN.... Let me be very clear here.
Please REREAD this paragraph It is the key to meeting me.....
YOU SHOULD PARALLEL ME IN CORE ASPECTS. You are educated, successful, driven, competitive, professional/entrepreneurs. You have a career, not a job. You are respected. Preferably a family man with kids. Attractive, take care of yourself, take pride in your appearance, are clean and understand what it means to be impeccably manscaped. And Men... You have to be packing some heat.. at least seven inches and thick.. This is NOT negotiable. That is what fits me best.
If like me, no one in your real world would ever suspect you of having a secret side, then we are destined to connect. If you do not understand what discretion means, don't waste my time.
*****If you can't handle wearing a condom, then keep moving. It's a MUST! I don't care if you are V-safe, I myself am fixed. I don't want any gifts from you, especially the ones that last a lifetime. So man up or go disrespect someone else.*****

Please stop sending me your one liner, bored today, i'm horny, lets hook up, no pic emails. If we have not built up a rapport, I will not text you, I will not call you, I will not have you over to my house while the kids are at school or asleep. If you lack class and cannot write more than a partial grouping of words requesting some back door porn chop shop quality of action, you are wasting both of our time. Seriously... I am here because I love to kiss and be touched.. Do you really think i'm interested in another selfish man? A man who has no concept of what mutual satisfaction is? Or who lacks the enjoyment of pleasuring a woman, what it means too.

NOW, if you treat me like a woman, are willing to take me out, fuck my mind, fill up my neglected void of attention in conversation and physical chemistry, I PROMISE you, I will not only be the woman in your dreams, but the slut you have always fantasized about. Dominate my mind, and you will dominate my body. But don't think taking me to the parking lot behind Walmart or the Motel 6 is my kind of kinky fun. HOWEVER, if you find a classy woman dressed well, with poise and an eloquent tongue on her knees in your suite or tied to your four poster bed wearing a teddy with thigh high stockings clipped to a garter and heels more enticing...
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE send me a note.

***Keeping in mind the need to be discreet, most of my pictures are locked. If you would like to see more of me, send me a friend request. IF you want to see all of me >the private folder< Show me how creative and smart you are.***

WARNING: Any Institutions or Persons using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, blogs, comments or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

  • 40 / female
  • Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Couples (2 men)
Birthdate: April 11, 1976
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 9 in / 175-177 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Marketing
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Catholic
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Bra Size: 38 / 85 D
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Either
My Trophy Case: