Hello, all !! We are 2 people who have lived the American Dream. We ( hubby and I ) we're college sweethearts, I lost my virginity to him the weekend of the Ohio State, Michigan game in 1970. ( Hubby scored more than BOTH teams that weekend !! ) We are still in love, still horny. We have raised 3 s, they all left the nest. We have been blessed with happiness, health, both mental and physical, and last but not least, financial security. We have been into ' Swinging ' ( is this life style still called ' swinging ' ) since early in our marriage. Even when the s were s we still found time for the occasional Friday Night Swing Scene. I ( wife ) am looking to find some guys, some girls, to keep this smile on my face ( hell, it cost a fortune, I might as well use it ) !! Hubby is content to watch with men, maybe join it, take pics and vids. He will only be present with women if I ask him, and that will be ONLY with the females consent ! There are so many gorgeous people out there, both men and women, it would be a shame to NOT go out there and pick a little something from the Swinging Tree !! I am in pretty good shape for my age, and my sex drive is as high as ever ! This is so natural, sex, that it SHOULD be no problem to find what I'm looking for. Back in the day ( there she goes, the old geezer ) people were more honest, friendlier, patient, and more HAPPY than they are today. I guess it's just a product of the age in with we live. Husband and I agree that we are not going to make this life style the focus of our life. We have learned that family, that includes our ren and grand ren, as well as friends we have made over the past 30 odd years can keep us happy and healthy forever. Come on, I just want a man who is a gentle, has a nice package, is good in bed and out !! Now is that so dam hard to find ?? Ladies, I just worship you !! Please, you gorgeous, sexy creatures I see every day of my life, get in touch with me ! I can assure your safety and your erotic fantasies will be taken care of ! Men, please do not be rude. I will need a picture to see if I am attracted to you. If I am, then it's time to start your engines gentlemmen, because the race is on !! I am only attracted to white males. So white males will be the only males getting a response !! I was going to write, brag if you will, that I am good in bed. But, really, aren't we all??? Ladies, I am counting on you to add sexual excitement to my already perfect life. Don't let me down. If your a younger woman, I am the one you want teaching you the fine art of girl-girl sex !! Husband and I are very friendly, loyal to a fault ! Even if we don't end up rocking each others world, we can still be friends, right ? Becca & Mark