AriesMan04 45 / M
"Sweet Island Life"
Orcas island, Washington, United States
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AriesMan04 45/M
Orcas island, Washington
looking for a sexual freak that wants to move to Hawaii with me!
Hello, Nice to maybe meet you someday
I am going to write a lot here, because I am not your average bear. If you are looking for a vanilla only (*sometimes is fun) guy, who doesn't want to help push your boundaries and enjoy some fun new things (Sybian?) then you may be in the wrong profile. If you list of don't is longer than your “Yes Please”list, then I may not be the fellow for you, or who knows, maybe you are just figuring it all out, and that is cool too.
Well, I guess first things first (second really)... I am a single straight guy living solo in my small sweet house on a lovely private piece of land out on Orcas Island. I have lived here about 20 years or so over the last 30. Island life can be a little slow, but I have tried Los Angeles, Seattle and Las Vegas.. and always find myself longing for the peace and privacy you cannot find there. I do enjoy trips to our Emerald City to enjoy those things that do not exist here though, and I usually am down there every month or so to record a live version of a podcast I do. I very much like being a great host here though, and it is a perfect launching point to enjoy what the islands have to offer. It can be a bit of a journey to get here, but I think it is very much worth it once you do.
Personally I can be a bit of a handful, but like the trip out the islands, I think I am worth it. I don't believe in some of the social norms of being embarrassed or ashamed of our sexual natures. AdultFriendFinder can be a great place to meet people who feel the same way, and I enjoy being able to have open and honest conversations about some of the things most people would consider taboo. I enjoy meeting women who feel the same way. That being said, I like knowing that my home is a safe place to visit, with no expectations other than the ones we may agree on. I have had people come over that just ended up being friendly, and they enjoyed a weekend in the guest room, good food, laughs and tripping around the island. I have had a guest that we both needed a week to recover from the weekend. The latter is more what I am hoping for, but it is not expected or demanded. I am old fashioned really in only one way, when you welcome someone into your home, their safety and feeling safe is your responsibility ( I am no Frey).
I am not looking for any sort of relationship, although I find most of the sexual partners I have had have turned into friendships, that is just who I am, and generally the type of people I am interested in. That being said, I am mostly a solitary person and not just looking for buddies, I want an amazing sexual partner, although anyone would be a fool to turn down a potential great friend, and if the right person came along for anything, I am open to it. (Yes Grammar Nutz, I use a lot of commas and run on sentences, I write the way I speak
Chemistry is a funny thing, you can have everything in common and just not have that spark in person, or sense a spark with almost nothing to relate to and then have fireworks when you meet. I always appreciate when someone expresses an interest, that they have their sexual likes and dislikes filled out on their profile. While it is titillating to find them out during conversation or in person, it is also good to know if there is at least some compatibility before launching into everything it takes to start making a real connection. I have to admit that I can be a bit of a freak. I am not abusive, or a misogynist. Every sexual encounter I have, does not have to be insane. A hot missionary has a great place in my world, but I have found that I am turned on by women who want more than that. I would encourage you to look at my own likes/dislikes. I do not fall into any “traditional” Dom/Sub roles, but while I am turned on by women who know what they want, and have no qualms about demanding it, I am more dominant by nature and really have no interest in being someones sub. I love sucking a lovers toes, but not because it is my “job”. I have also never been someones Dom. I have been around a lot of it in the lifestyle, and not to minimize the complexity of that relationship, but I am pretty sure I could be amazing at it.. if I had a partner that wanted that role out of me.
I am not for everyone, but if all this intrigued you, and you think a weekend trip out to a strangers house on an island sounds interesting, then let's talk.

My Ideal Person I don't really have an "ideal".. well, I guess I do, but it is such an improbable grouping of characteristics that I don't see it as a whole person, just a set of things I find myself attracted to. Someone who likes to laugh and is easy to do so. Relaxed and easy to be around, with a second gear that can lead to some wild fun. On AdultFriendFinder I tend to look more at profiles who have their likes/dislikes filled out, because while we don't have to be on the same page on everything, it is nice to have some common ground to start with. My interests and attractions and multiple and varied, and while some conform to the "standards".. most do not. I guess if I had to say one recurring theme would be the secret, or not so secret freak in the sheets.. other than that it really all depends on the individual.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Opening the door and a beautiful woman is standing there,
reaches down, unzips my pants and I am instantly hard. She
swallows all of me while looking up into my eyes.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Hirsute

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Experimental

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
When I was a kid it was Terri Garr and Heather Thomas. As a
young adult it was Isabelle Adjani. Now..

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 45 / male
  • Orcas island, Washington, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: March 27, 1971
Travels to: Hawi, Hawaii, United States
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Fun Engineer
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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