Frenchman living in Cornwall, celibate for too long seeks FWB. To be an ageing lover can be very lonely when lust is raging below the belt. Cyber sex is ageist, defined by your age not one's virility, experience or personality. When seduction doesn't work, you get tempted to appeal on sympathy. I'll leave that to an old Lothario, my desire for a woman's attention hasn't changed, it always will be "donnant, donnant", prosaically in English 50/50 lol.